Colton

Um, my parents never did talk about it.

Um, she knew next to nothing.

Um, her parents never did really talk to her about it either.

And, uh, it, it, what happened was, is it kind of developed a lot of anxiety around it on her part.

And, um, at the beginning of our marriage, it was more of what drove us apart than it did bringing us together.

Sure.

And now that we know that, the thing that, you know, I'm struggling with is, you know, even though we don't have the exact same scenario as what I had, you know, both of us had growing up with our boys, I feel like the strong and healthy connection with it needs to be talked about.

Yes, big time.

I don't know how to broach that subject because, you know, I never did have that.

Yeah.

That's how it was with, you know, my family and even her family, it's a very private thing, even to show outward affection, you know, and that can be just, you know, hugging or kissing or whatever it is, you know, never did see that a lot.

Yes.

And I can say that me and my wife have come a long ways when it comes to that.

Amazing.

So it's nothing for them to see us hugging or whatever.

Oh, wait.

It needs to up it.

Up it.

That's the thing that's concerned about it, you know, because they go to public school.

We weren't.