Connell Barrett

And we were on a date a couple nights later.

And she and I were talking about being boyfriend-girlfriend not long after that.

It all started with an observation that told me what to say.

And that's what I'm getting at here is the what to say method shows you how to start conversations in a very simple, light, charming way.

And in real life, and this is really important, my clients and I have found that about 9 out of 10 times you're going to get a positive response.

Somewhere between polite and positive.

Not the dreaded rejection.

Here's why.

Women don't reject friendly, normal conversation.

They reject sexual advances.

Or they reject weird, abnormal behavior.

But when you say nice tattoo or what's on your gym playlist, you're just being human.

There's nothing to reject.

Now, she may or may not want to talk with you for two, three, five minutes.

I don't know.

But what is she going to say to you?

How dare you ask me what I'm listening to here at the gym, you monster.

No, we have a social contact with each other to be respectful and normal and human and social.

So essentially nine out of 10 times, nothing bad will happen in terms of a bad response.

And if a woman does one out of 10 times come off as dismissive or say, I don't feel like talking.