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But I remember thinking, oh, wow, we're both family people.

She's close to her brother.

I'm really close to a couple of my sisters.

And I just felt like a real sort of heart connection to her.

And it wasn't just fun.

It was really an emotionally connecting experience to me.

And I went home that night thinking, oh, my God, I thought this might just be a fun little fling.

Did I just meet the one?

As cheesy as that sounds, that's how I felt that night.

And it came from the fact that we didn't just banter.

We had a real strong emotional connection.

So the thing for you to keep in mind is don't worry as much about having the same facts in common and finding commonalities.

It's great if you both went to the same college or like the same, you know, movies or bands, but it's more about finding out you feel the same way about some important things like family or food or whatever.

loving cats, loving dogs, and hating jogging and hating.

We hate a lot of the same things too.

So we bonded over things we both dislike, like jogging and Newark airport.

Okay.

That's level four.

Let's move to level five.

The fifth level of flirting is, and you've heard this before.