Connell Barrett

If you prescript what you're going to say, you're going to sound like customer service.

That's not hot.

Unless she wants to talk to a customer service representative, don't do it.

You don't go through life scripting conversations like with your friends, with your family, with your coworkers, right?

You go through the world being spontaneous.

So why would you script your opener?

Why would you script what you would say to a woman?

It takes you out of the present human moment.

And that's actually where your best interactions and the best things to say are going to come from, those present spontaneous moments.

So let the what to say framework guide you in that moment, okay?

By the way, so I've been approaching women since 2009, been teaching it since roughly 2012.

Women want spontaneous conversation, not canned lines.

No woman has ever gone and told her girlfriend, so this guy who approached me, he had the best scripted pickup line.

It was perfect.

Hell no.

What women actually say is, I met this charming guy.

The conversation flowed.

It just happened.

And I gave him my number.

It felt like a rom-com.