Connell Barrett
👤 SpeakerAppearances Over Time
Podcast Appearances
Don't get pulled over.
You're making an observation, noticing something unusual.
I was at the gym once, and I noticed a woman's bottle of water was shaped like a flask.
It was clear and flask-shaped.
So I could see this clear liquid in a flask-looking bottle.
container.
I observed that.
You notice something.
And then I just called it out.
I said, hey, your flask, that's different.
I've never seen that before.
And then I asked her, what's in that?
Is it vodka or gin?
So notice how that's an example of me blending observation, segueing over to a question.
Now we're getting somewhere where you can start taking these simple three options and blend them together.
Like crossing the streams in Ghostbusters becomes very powerful.
So yeah, questions, compliments, observations.
And the what to say method just makes it so easy to start conversations in a really light, charming way.
Here's a quick story.
I met my future girlfriend.