Connell Barrett

And I was just saying jerky things to a group of three women.

And one of the three women, about five minutes into my interaction with them, came over and came up from behind me.

I was so annoying and so obnoxious that she poured a pitcher of ice water down my shirt.

A well-deserved pitcher of ice water down my shirt.

And so...

That was the time I said, you know what?

Not only does this not work, I felt like I was wearing an ill-fitting suit.

I felt like I was not being me.

And so the big lesson I learned was being some fake alpha, that's really creepy to women.

That's not attractive.

one thing to be confident it's one thing to be certain in yourself but it's it's another thing to be an obnoxious jerk and that's what i learned so whoever you are a young woman from the past who poured that ice water down my shirt i deserved it thank you for the lesson and anyway i gave up i gave up the whole fake alpha be a jerk thing for good at that point and um

Another story for another episode.

I had one of the best nights of my life a week later when I just fully leaned into being myself and not putting on that mask.

Okay.

Story number two.

Creepy Connell story number two.

I call this the does this work date.

That's what a woman asked me.

So I'm sitting in a lounge and I had a first date with a woman I met from a dating app.

I forget her name, but I remember we're sitting in this cool lounge, low-lit lounge in...