Connell Barrett
👤 SpeakerAppearances Over Time
Podcast Appearances
This brings us to level five.
And actually, the next one, again, is in our linear arc here.
It makes total sense, which is level five, physical and nonverbal expressiveness.
You know what that is.
It's physical, physically touching, of course.
But it's not just the physical touch.
It's nonverbal, right?
Eye contact, the way you use your voice, physical proximity.
This is level five.
And here's what it looks like on dates for you or for many men anyway.
Most guys do not touch at all.
They're just afraid.
They're figuratively or literally sitting on their hands.
And they don't have any kind of physical touch.
Or some guys touch too much because they're reading their TikTok or they're watching their TikTok videos that you must break the touch barrier.
And they're escalating at random times, making a desperate touch.
That's no good.
We don't want to do that.
So for level five of flirting mastery, physical and nonverbal, here's what it looks like.
It's a gradual, mutual, stair-step escalation.