From ‘I’m Not Feeling It’ to ‘I Can’t Wait to See You Again’ — The 6 Levels of Flirting Mastery
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What are the six levels of flirting mastery?
That's right, me, a nerd who looks like Ron Weasley hit it off with a model. Miracles do happen when you are competent at flirting and eventually masterful at flirting.
How can I flirt playfully to create a connection?
Welcome back to the How to Get a Girlfriend podcast. I'm your host, dating coach, Conal Barrett. I'm here to help you get a great girlfriend and do it with what I call radical authenticity.
What are clear statements of romantic interest and why are they important?
No sketchy, weird, pickup artist tactics needed here. Because women like you for you. I'm recording this on Valentine's Day. And what better day than Valentine's Day to record this episode for you? I want to make you a master flirter.
How does banter enhance flirting and chemistry?
I want to tell you about the six levels of flirting. I want to take you from where you are now, which is probably struggling. Maybe you're confused about how to flirt. Maybe women lose interest in you, ghost you, or say things like, hey, I'm just not feeling it, but you're a nice guy. Well, Today's episode, I want to help you become a master at flirting.
What role does emotional connection play in flirting?
I'm going to teach you the six levels of flirting so you know exactly what to say and what to do to make sparks fly with women. Really cool, cute women too. And being able to do this on first dates, by text, when you approach, pretty much all parts of dating. And stick around until the end of the episode, the very last part of this episode where I talk about level six, I'm going to tell you a really great story about how I went from level one to level five, almost all the way advanced in one night, and ignited some fireworks with a former model I was once on a date with.
How can physical and nonverbal expressiveness improve flirting?
That's right, me, a nerd who looks like Ron Weasley, hit it off with a model. Miracles do happen when you are competent at flirting, and eventually masterful at flirting. So let's do it. Let's get to these six levels of flirting.
Let's dive in.
What is integration and calibration in flirting mastery?
Here is level one. Level one is one simple word, play. Flirting is about playing. The dictionary definition, I literally looked this up.
I think it was the Oxford English Dictionary defines flirting as playing at love.
How can I apply these flirting levels in real-life dating situations?
That's what it is. Flirting should be playful. But you, or most guys anyway, they're not playful when talking to women, when on a date, when texting. Most guys are logical. They ask logical questions. They interrogate her. in quote-unquote interview mode but it's not just about interview mode it's logical analytical questions or maybe even if you don't ask all questions you don't talk about fun playful topics maybe you just have a nice friendly or analytical conversation but that is not flirting well here's what it should look like talking to women should look like light, playful topics going back and forth, perhaps some teasing, playing fun little games, get to know you games, and just a playful energy.
So for example, here's what it looks like. Instead of how long have you played tennis? That's a logical analytical question. You might ask, what do you love about tennis? Or what do you hate about tennis? When do you want to throw your racket? Notice how the second one is more playful, more emotion-based. And that's what this is about. Here's why this works, by the way. Play equals good emotion. Also equals flirting. And women want to go on dates or text a guy on an app or be approached by a guy who's going to bring her good emotions. Women want to feel the feels, not learn the facts. All right? Early in my... courtship of my girlfriend jess we were on it was like in the first two to three dates we met up in the park one day on a weekend afternoon and we're sitting in the park with a couple of coffees and jess is just naturally playful and fun and flirty she never needed a dating coach unlike me back in the day but we're sitting in this park and all these dogs or all these people with their dogs or someone some without their dogs were walking by us and
And so I said, hey, let's play a game. The next man who walks in front of us, who crosses our line here, sitting on the bench, crosses our eye line, you're going to marry that guy. She said, okay, that's my future husband. And lo and behold, about 20 seconds later, a big chubby guy who looked like Elvis walked by.
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Chapters
8 chapters
1
What are the six levels of flirting mastery?
0:00–0:20
2
How can I flirt playfully to create a connection?
0:20–0:31
3
What are clear statements of romantic interest and why are they important?
0:31–0:50
4
How does banter enhance flirting and chemistry?
0:50–1:13
5
What role does emotional connection play in flirting?
1:13–1:55
6
How can physical and nonverbal expressiveness improve flirting?
1:55–2:12
7
What is integration and calibration in flirting mastery?
2:12–2:31
8
How can I apply these flirting levels in real-life dating situations?
2:31–36:36
Speakers
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