Connell Barrett

What this means is all of these five levels you have now integrated and can do them at will and sometimes combine them, which I'll share what that means in a second, but also you can calibrate.

You can read the woman and know what to do when.

Here's what most guys do, by the way.

Not most guys.

Here's what many guys do.

When they do learn flirting moves from whatever their source is, they try random flirting moves, you know, throwing spaghetti against the wall.

They do the physical touch thing because so many coaches say that.

Or they say some planned naggy, cocky line, which can work like in a vacuum moment, I suppose.

But basically these guys are throwing spaghetti against the wall.

Real flirting mastery is when you can integrate these moves, they become automatic within reason, or at least you can call on them and know what to do when you need to do it.

And also you do it based on reading her and also reading yourself.

That's when you're a flirting master.

So yeah, let me share with you what this looks like.

Here's a good story that I can best explain this.

I had a first date once with a woman named, I will call her Rachel.

Rachel, 5'10", gorgeous, former model, long brunette hair, just dynamite.

just dynamite.

And we had our first date and we're sitting at this venue, a rooftop lounge.

We're sitting on the couch together and we're about 90 minutes into a date and it's going fine, but it's not going great.

My banter was good because I'm a good bantery guy.