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So those are the six levels.

Now, most guys just bounce around from tip to tip, trick to trick, wondering what to try next.

That is not mastery.

What I wanted to give you today was like a whole arc, a whole arc, a whole toolbox, so that you know how the process of romantic connection between a man and a woman unfolds, or at least how it can unfold.

From play to romantic intent to some banter to connection to physicality, how you can blend all these together.

This is when flirting stops feeling random and starts feeling intentional, okay?

So I hope this has helped you.

One final caveat.

Don't feel like you have to do all seven at once.

I'm not saying you have to.

You might go on a date and you just banter a bit and she's super into you.

That's more than enough.

Or you might go on a date, maybe you're not a bantery guy.

Maybe you're not Mr. Banter.

Maybe you're someone who more prefers to just, you know,

Speak your thoughts.

Be bold.

Be blunt.

Look her in the eye and say, hey, you know what's really sexy about you, Amanda?

I just love how ambitious you are.