Connell Barrett

So yeah, the core truth is, here's where you probably are right now.

You send the text message.

You might get a little butt hurt if she doesn't reply.

You make a false assumption.

Oh, I guess she's not into me.

I guess she doesn't like me.

No.

She's probably just distracted.

If she's an attractive, stylish woman with a cool life that's together, she has got a crazy amount of online dating options coming in.

If you're on the apps and even if you're off the apps, if you're just texting each other, she still has options and there's a lot of stimuli hitting her and you just want to follow up.

So here's the solution to this.

The solution is what I call the three times rule.

The three times rule, which is I would never give up on a woman I'm attracted to, interested in, until three good text messages go unanswered.

Three good ones.

Not, hey, did you get my last message?

Hey, are you blowing me off?

hey, am I going to stay a virgin ginger forever?

No.

Three good messages, humor, heart, jokes.

I can't tell you how simple this little make or break moment is and how it can change everything.