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And that told me something. That told me that the decision that I had made was the right decision. And I went on. Now, it didn't mean I started dating immediately because I didn't. I probably went, I don't know, seven months, six months before I even thought about it. Maybe it was longer. The bottom line is that make the determination and be honest with yourself and be honest with the person.
Because at the end of the day, if it's meant to be, you'll find your way back. I'm not finding my way back because I made the right choice. And after some time and made sure that my head was clear on everybody that was from my past. Because let me tell you, there was some muck in my brain. And I got rid of all the muck.
Because at the end of the day, if it's meant to be, you'll find your way back. I'm not finding my way back because I made the right choice. And after some time and made sure that my head was clear on everybody that was from my past. Because let me tell you, there was some muck in my brain. And I got rid of all the muck.
Because at the end of the day, if it's meant to be, you'll find your way back. I'm not finding my way back because I made the right choice. And after some time and made sure that my head was clear on everybody that was from my past. Because let me tell you, there was some muck in my brain. And I got rid of all the muck.
And that allowed me to go forward healthy. So that's what my recommendation to everybody is. Make sure you get rid of all the muck.
And that allowed me to go forward healthy. So that's what my recommendation to everybody is. Make sure you get rid of all the muck.
And that allowed me to go forward healthy. So that's what my recommendation to everybody is. Make sure you get rid of all the muck.
Let's go. One, two, three, four.
Let's go. One, two, three, four.
Let's go. One, two, three, four.
Forget the past and move forward, basically. It's like when you break up with somebody. If you can be friends, but don't be anywhere that's going to be suggestively intimate. Everything that he is displaying is not to have you as his intimate partner. He's looking at, you know, right now you guys are, you know, Hey, I'm available. You're available. Do you want to do it? And is it okay?
Forget the past and move forward, basically. It's like when you break up with somebody. If you can be friends, but don't be anywhere that's going to be suggestively intimate. Everything that he is displaying is not to have you as his intimate partner. He's looking at, you know, right now you guys are, you know, Hey, I'm available. You're available. Do you want to do it? And is it okay?
Forget the past and move forward, basically. It's like when you break up with somebody. If you can be friends, but don't be anywhere that's going to be suggestively intimate. Everything that he is displaying is not to have you as his intimate partner. He's looking at, you know, right now you guys are, you know, Hey, I'm available. You're available. Do you want to do it? And is it okay?
You know, you're the benefit thing. And if that's what you want, be friends and benefit, then call it out to him saying, are we just going to be friends with benefits or are we going to be, and then you've got to be able to deal with that because you don't, you don't really care, but if you really care, it's not going to work. It's going to be that imbalance wheel. And that's the problem. And,
You know, you're the benefit thing. And if that's what you want, be friends and benefit, then call it out to him saying, are we just going to be friends with benefits or are we going to be, and then you've got to be able to deal with that because you don't, you don't really care, but if you really care, it's not going to work. It's going to be that imbalance wheel. And that's the problem. And,
You know, you're the benefit thing. And if that's what you want, be friends and benefit, then call it out to him saying, are we just going to be friends with benefits or are we going to be, and then you've got to be able to deal with that because you don't, you don't really care, but if you really care, it's not going to work. It's going to be that imbalance wheel. And that's the problem. And,
Set yourself free. Go find the person that's really going to be your intimate partner and really want you because you'll find it. You're, you're open to it. Your, your window is wide open, but just, you got to close it to this, to these feelings.
Set yourself free. Go find the person that's really going to be your intimate partner and really want you because you'll find it. You're, you're open to it. Your, your window is wide open, but just, you got to close it to this, to these feelings.
Set yourself free. Go find the person that's really going to be your intimate partner and really want you because you'll find it. You're, you're open to it. Your, your window is wide open, but just, you got to close it to this, to these feelings.
So you may even have to give yourself some time to get over the, you know, the attraction side, but you're not going to close that window to him until you really don't see him and be away. So you got to really close that, that part of your life off for a, for a period of time until you're healed.