Dalton

Okay.

The first one.

What you can do to win a restful personality by Lucrezia Bori, the famous Spanish prima donna.

Personality is something that every woman desires to possess.

The woman who lacks charm and feels this lack often finds herself hopelessly at a loss to know what to do to change her outlook on life and her effect on others.

She longs for a magazine personality.

This is wild, isn't it?

The kind that draws others to her and makes them want to be with her and she doesn't know where to begin.

No woman who is nervous and jumpy can be magnetic.

The woman who fairly draws... So remember, guys, this is from the 1800s.

The woman who fairly draws others to her and makes them want to be around because she is so lovely and charming is the woman who is calm and smooth-mannered and restful.

Hmm.

But it just plays into these stereotypes that unfortunately like still exist a bit today and like how to be a good woman and why all this manosphere shit just triggers me so much because honestly it's like we're reading from the 1800s.

Anyway, we continue.

Think this over.

Think of the woman amongst your friends whom you find the most delightful.

They are invariably the women whose calm response bespeaks the smooth, even temper and the calm, resourceful mind.

How different this type is from a nervous, fidgety woman who toys with the silver at the table, who invariably plays with something when she's conversing with you.

And all I'm thinking the whole time is like, oh my God, if someone was ADHD, they would have no idea.

Whether it be string of beads around her neck or some small trinket that she picks up, if she's dining, it's the silver on the table that furnishes her with some outlet for her nervous activity.