Dan Harris

What are your thoughts on how we can use everything we've been talking about to like be the most effective in a room?

But there are some more affirmative actions we can take, like maintaining eye contact or using expressive storytelling where we're making either small or large gestures.

Can you say just a little bit more about those practices?

Say a little bit more about eye contact specifically, because I can see how maintaining eye contact can be effective, but it also can be a little creepy if overused.

Last thing I wanted to ask you about is you write about the overlap between synchrony and synchronicity.

So maybe define synchronicity as in contrast to synchrony and like say a little bit about what the overlap might be.

On some level, I'm open to that.

You know, I've certainly had it happen where I'm thinking about it actually happened this morning.

My wife was texting me about a third person, and that third person emailed both of us during the text exchange.

I've definitely had that experience.

However, I mean, my more clinical, skeptical lens...

would argue that it's just a coincidence.

Like, how many times are you thinking of people and they don't text you at that moment or they don't call you at that moment?

We don't really pay attention to all of those.

We do pay attention to the ones where it seems like a synchronicity.

Well, I agree with you that we don't know, you know, on the synchronicity tip specifically, like we don't know.

And that's the only, I believe the only honest answer.

Indeed.

Kate, anything you were hoping we would get to that we didn't?

It's super helpful.