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Dan Harris

๐Ÿ‘ค Speaker
2218 total appearances

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10% Happier with Dan Harris
How To Relax The Need To Control Everything | Rosa Lewis

It might be good for a minute or two, but it's not really an abiding strategy.

10% Happier with Dan Harris
How To Relax The Need To Control Everything | Rosa Lewis

One portal into some deeper way of being alive is to

10% Happier with Dan Harris
How To Relax The Need To Control Everything | Rosa Lewis

kind of let it in.

10% Happier with Dan Harris
How To Relax The Need To Control Everything | Rosa Lewis

So if we start from that idea, it's a natural progression.

10% Happier with Dan Harris
How To Relax The Need To Control Everything | Rosa Lewis

I think you're saying to, all right, how do we practice this?

10% Happier with Dan Harris
How To Relax The Need To Control Everything | Rosa Lewis

Well, let's conjure the thing that most of us are most afraid of, the most difficult aspect of being alive, which is the terrifying mystery of death.

10% Happier with Dan Harris
How To Relax The Need To Control Everything | Rosa Lewis

And let's see if we can't make it as vivid as possible in our mind through this guided practice or through this, you know, practice that we guide ourselves through.

10% Happier with Dan Harris
How To Relax The Need To Control Everything | Rosa Lewis

So that we can maybe achieve a degree of equanimity with this inevitability.

10% Happier with Dan Harris
How To Relax The Need To Control Everything | Rosa Lewis

Yeah, I mean, it's kind of like the way I understand or operationalize what I think you're saying is in light of death, the shit I'm worried about

10% Happier with Dan Harris
How To Relax The Need To Control Everything | Rosa Lewis

isn't that deep then the trick is to keep death top of mind so that we can keep our problems in perspective one way that i find helpful and it's i really like the exercise you're describing but one way i a perhaps additional way for people is the buddha's five daily remembrances once in the morning once at night i really have been able to get into the habit of just recalling

10% Happier with Dan Harris
How To Relax The Need To Control Everything | Rosa Lewis

This body is of the nature to grow old, get sick, die.

10% Happier with Dan Harris
How To Relax The Need To Control Everything | Rosa Lewis

I'm going to someday lose everything and everybody I hold dear.

10% Happier with Dan Harris
How To Relax The Need To Control Everything | Rosa Lewis

As a result, the only real possessions I have are my actions.

10% Happier with Dan Harris
How To Relax The Need To Control Everything | Rosa Lewis

And just doing that twice a day, I mean, it doesn't mean I never get carried away by bullshit, but I think I'm less likely to because death is closer.

10% Happier with Dan Harris
How To Relax The Need To Control Everything | Rosa Lewis

It just has more salience for me than it used to.

10% Happier with Dan Harris
How To Relax The Need To Control Everything | Rosa Lewis

Coming up, Rosa talks about some more aspects of experience, such as why falling in love with your experience of being alive can actually deepen your practice.

10% Happier with Dan Harris
How To Relax The Need To Control Everything | Rosa Lewis

The fourth aspect of experience that you're suggesting we unlock en route to presence is, and these are your words, falling in love with experience.

10% Happier with Dan Harris
How To Relax The Need To Control Everything | Rosa Lewis

Say more, please.

10% Happier with Dan Harris
How To Relax The Need To Control Everything | Rosa Lewis

I mean, I don't think anybody's going to argue with this.

10% Happier with Dan Harris
How To Relax The Need To Control Everything | Rosa Lewis

This one sounds good.