Dan Savage

And then have that conversation. Refuse to get dragged into a conversation about your failure to click the link to find out the film festival was not just this one weekend, but this pattern of behavior and what it means and what she actually wants and what she's actually trying to accomplish with these meltdowns and these tantrums.

And then have that conversation. Refuse to get dragged into a conversation about your failure to click the link to find out the film festival was not just this one weekend, but this pattern of behavior and what it means and what she actually wants and what she's actually trying to accomplish with these meltdowns and these tantrums.

And if it's not going to get her anywhere, if, because you have a husband and a dog and a busy young adult life, you can't give her any more attention than you're able to give her. you might have to, if not break up with your friend or end this friendship, you might have to just get her to reset her expectations by having boundaries and enforcing them.

And if it's not going to get her anywhere, if, because you have a husband and a dog and a busy young adult life, you can't give her any more attention than you're able to give her. you might have to, if not break up with your friend or end this friendship, you might have to just get her to reset her expectations by having boundaries and enforcing them.

And one of those boundaries can be, oh, you're turning on the waterworks, you're crying, we're going to get off the phone now and you're going to give me a buzz when you're feeling better. Time for some listener feedback. First up, some of the comments left on last week's show in the very lively comment threads at savage.love.

And one of those boundaries can be, oh, you're turning on the waterworks, you're crying, we're going to get off the phone now and you're going to give me a buzz when you're feeling better. Time for some listener feedback. First up, some of the comments left on last week's show in the very lively comment threads at savage.love.

Says the funny Dom, a past Lovecast guest, regarding the call from a new dominant looking for humiliating tasks for a long-distance sub. Dan said a book featuring rules, tasks, protocols for doms and subs... doesn't exist. Good news. It does. The funny Dom's guide to kink volume two features a whole chapter of 50 rules and protocols to try in your DS dynamic.

Says the funny Dom, a past Lovecast guest, regarding the call from a new dominant looking for humiliating tasks for a long-distance sub. Dan said a book featuring rules, tasks, protocols for doms and subs... doesn't exist. Good news. It does. The funny Dom's guide to kink volume two features a whole chapter of 50 rules and protocols to try in your DS dynamic.

My bad, funny Dom, sir, and feel free to assign me a task to make it up to you. Former Catholic kid here. So have a thing even still for penance says Catherine regarding the call from the woman with the sub cat that suddenly wanted to be roughed up. There are lots of cats that like to be drummed on and petted roughly and There's even a whole subreddit for them, rcatbongos. It's not sexual.

My bad, funny Dom, sir, and feel free to assign me a task to make it up to you. Former Catholic kid here. So have a thing even still for penance says Catherine regarding the call from the woman with the sub cat that suddenly wanted to be roughed up. There are lots of cats that like to be drummed on and petted roughly and There's even a whole subreddit for them, rcatbongos. It's not sexual.

Says Polly about the same call, my cat did the same thing where suddenly she wanted really vigorous back scratches and would yowl and bite and get mad if we stopped scratching. Turns out she had fleas. No wonder she was all itchy and pissed off. Medicine cleared it up and she was back to her normal self in no time.

Says Polly about the same call, my cat did the same thing where suddenly she wanted really vigorous back scratches and would yowl and bite and get mad if we stopped scratching. Turns out she had fleas. No wonder she was all itchy and pissed off. Medicine cleared it up and she was back to her normal self in no time.

Finally, says ByDanFan, one concern suggests itself regarding the 24-hour boob jobs through saline infusions. Using saline infusions to stretch the breasts, you will stretch the skin and that could lead to sagging or stretch marks once the breasts return to their usual size. Scrotums, last time we talked about saline infusions to blow something up, it was ball sacks.

Finally, says ByDanFan, one concern suggests itself regarding the 24-hour boob jobs through saline infusions. Using saline infusions to stretch the breasts, you will stretch the skin and that could lead to sagging or stretch marks once the breasts return to their usual size. Scrotums, last time we talked about saline infusions to blow something up, it was ball sacks.

Scrotums, ByDanFan points out, are wrinkly anyway, which makes those saline infusions less potentially problematic. down the road. Perhaps the caller's baby girl could invest in a breastplate like some drag queens wear if she wants to rock a buxom look now and again. Thanks by Dan Fan, and you are right. Those breastplates as seen on Drag Race are amazing and very realistic.

Scrotums, ByDanFan points out, are wrinkly anyway, which makes those saline infusions less potentially problematic. down the road. Perhaps the caller's baby girl could invest in a breastplate like some drag queens wear if she wants to rock a buxom look now and again. Thanks by Dan Fan, and you are right. Those breastplates as seen on Drag Race are amazing and very realistic.

And while not cheap, they're cheaper than seeing a cosmetic surgeon for a saline infusion. And even better, you get to use them more than once. All right, for more listener feedback, check out Struggle Session every Thursday at savage.love. And now, everyone's favorite part of the show, mine included, the part where I shut my big gay mouth and let my listeners have the last word.

And while not cheap, they're cheaper than seeing a cosmetic surgeon for a saline infusion. And even better, you get to use them more than once. All right, for more listener feedback, check out Struggle Session every Thursday at savage.love. And now, everyone's favorite part of the show, mine included, the part where I shut my big gay mouth and let my listeners have the last word.

we're gonna leave it there we've got three ways for you to get us your questions are actually nancy can we stop the outro music for just a second here because there's one last thing i wanted to get off my chest before we wrap up this week's show this show of all shows and that's we're not going anywhere

we're gonna leave it there we've got three ways for you to get us your questions are actually nancy can we stop the outro music for just a second here because there's one last thing i wanted to get off my chest before we wrap up this week's show this show of all shows and that's we're not going anywhere