Dan Savage

This is what we mean to each other. This is... how we've structured our open relationships so that our relationship doesn't fall apart, so that we're both comfortable and consenting to this open relationship. And there is this room and space in our relationship and our marriage for a third person. And if you'd like to be that third person, at least for now, this is the space available.

And if that's not enough space for you, or you feel constrained or secondary, then you're free to go over time. You know, when you're in a couple and you're with a third person and you've been together for years and years and years, and you're much more invested in the relationship, it's much harder to walk away from that relationship.

And if that's not enough space for you, or you feel constrained or secondary, then you're free to go over time. You know, when you're in a couple and you're with a third person and you've been together for years and years and years, and you're much more invested in the relationship, it's much harder to walk away from that relationship.

Over time, that three-way throuple relationship can become more egalitarian. Certain decisions that two months in may have been the couples alone could five years in become the throuples together. Things like where to go on vacation, things like where to live or move depending on whose career requires a move or how to navigate that if it should come to that.

Over time, that three-way throuple relationship can become more egalitarian. Certain decisions that two months in may have been the couples alone could five years in become the throuples together. Things like where to go on vacation, things like where to live or move depending on whose career requires a move or how to navigate that if it should come to that.

Or, you know, if we're going to sell this house and buy a new one, you know, two months in, the third doesn't get a say. Five years in, 10 years in, we're going to sell this house and buy a new one that's where we're all going to live as we've been living in this house that we originally bought for two of us. The third gets a say.

Or, you know, if we're going to sell this house and buy a new one, you know, two months in, the third doesn't get a say. Five years in, 10 years in, we're going to sell this house and buy a new one that's where we're all going to live as we've been living in this house that we originally bought for two of us. The third gets a say.

But what becomes for the couple instantaneous when they commit to each other, when they marry, that this is a partnership, it's just a reality, just a fact on the ground that if it's a committed throuple and a third is brought into an ongoing committed relationship, joins a going concern,

But what becomes for the couple instantaneous when they commit to each other, when they marry, that this is a partnership, it's just a reality, just a fact on the ground that if it's a committed throuple and a third is brought into an ongoing committed relationship, joins a going concern,

That that equal say is something that over time the third person earns or grows into, but it takes, it takes time. So it was my advice to you as the couple and Terry and I have been that couple is to not fucking lie, to not tell somebody two months in three months in even a year or two in you are an equal partner with an equal say in the sorts of decisions a couple would typically make together.

That that equal say is something that over time the third person earns or grows into, but it takes, it takes time. So it was my advice to you as the couple and Terry and I have been that couple is to not fucking lie, to not tell somebody two months in three months in even a year or two in you are an equal partner with an equal say in the sorts of decisions a couple would typically make together.

You are a junior partner with a say. but a junior partner, say. And I think that honesty, so that people's expectations are realistic, can make that relationship resilient, strong, and make everybody in it feel safe and comfortable. And my advice to a third who's dating a couple, you're not dating two individuals. You are dating a couple, singular. And you can't rush that process.

You are a junior partner with a say. but a junior partner, say. And I think that honesty, so that people's expectations are realistic, can make that relationship resilient, strong, and make everybody in it feel safe and comfortable. And my advice to a third who's dating a couple, you're not dating two individuals. You are dating a couple, singular. And you can't rush that process.

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