Dan Savage

So I will endorse this with some hesitation on the condition that for at least the next year, you maintain separate households and give this 14-year-old some space and time to recover from the trauma her mother needlessly inflicted on her because she was having a fight with her boyfriend about things adults in relationships have conflict about all the time and do not...

blow up, involve kids, involve other relatives, have to call the police and threaten someone with gun violence. Like people process this exact conflict all the time without this kind of drama. And that's what's got to happen. If you're going to get together, it's like figure out how to defuse this conflict without this kind of drama, or it's just the Yeah. I'm running my mouth now.

blow up, involve kids, involve other relatives, have to call the police and threaten someone with gun violence. Like people process this exact conflict all the time without this kind of drama. And that's what's got to happen. If you're going to get together, it's like figure out how to defuse this conflict without this kind of drama, or it's just the Yeah. I'm running my mouth now.

Don't move in together for a year. Enjoy the amazing pussy. If you guys are good in a year, maybe you can move in together and her daughter will feel better about it.

Don't move in together for a year. Enjoy the amazing pussy. If you guys are good in a year, maybe you can move in together and her daughter will feel better about it.

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Hey Dan, I have a threesome condom etiquette question for you. I'm a cis woman. My boyfriend's a cis guy. We're both somewhere around heteroflexible. We've had foursomes with other couples before, but we've only ever soft swapped. And so condom wearing hasn't been something that we've negotiated before in group play, but we're really interested in having our first threesome with another guy.

Hey Dan, I have a threesome condom etiquette question for you. I'm a cis woman. My boyfriend's a cis guy. We're both somewhere around heteroflexible. We've had foursomes with other couples before, but we've only ever soft swapped. And so condom wearing hasn't been something that we've negotiated before in group play, but we're really interested in having our first threesome with another guy.

And we're hoping to make that happen. And we're just wondering if there is any general etiquette around condom wearing. So my boyfriend doesn't wear a condom when it's just the two of us, but we'd certainly be needing the other guy to wear a condom for any penetration and it would just be of me. There wouldn't be any penetration between the two guys.

And we're hoping to make that happen. And we're just wondering if there is any general etiquette around condom wearing. So my boyfriend doesn't wear a condom when it's just the two of us, but we'd certainly be needing the other guy to wear a condom for any penetration and it would just be of me. There wouldn't be any penetration between the two guys.

And we're just wondering, is there just a general rule that if one guy needs to wear a condom, the other guy should too? I mean, of course, this is something that we can talk about with the guy, but we just didn't even want to bring it up if it showed poor manners, poor form, bad etiquette. If you could let us know, that would be great.

And we're just wondering, is there just a general rule that if one guy needs to wear a condom, the other guy should too? I mean, of course, this is something that we can talk about with the guy, but we just didn't even want to bring it up if it showed poor manners, poor form, bad etiquette. If you could let us know, that would be great.

I love how you say condom. It's so much more refined and glamorous than how we say it. Condom. That's how we say it in Chicago. Condom sounds like something I want to put on my dick. Look, your boyfriend, the two of you are fluid bonded. Anybody that you might want to have a three-way with, anybody who is safe, responsible, intuitive,

I love how you say condom. It's so much more refined and glamorous than how we say it. Condom. That's how we say it in Chicago. Condom sounds like something I want to put on my dick. Look, your boyfriend, the two of you are fluid bonded. Anybody that you might want to have a three-way with, anybody who is safe, responsible, intuitive,

has a high emotional IQ, the kind of person who makes a good three-way partner is going to understand that of course your boyfriend doesn't have to wear a condom, but he does, or condom, but he does because you two aren't fluid bonded. I've had three ways. I've never had a guy object to him having to wear a condom.