Dan Savage

But the next morning he talked to a bunch of his friends who all went home and then got on Grindr where they recognized people from the party that then they hooked up with later. Yeah, that is kind of how the dick is had for a lot of younger people these days. You don't walk up to people in person and talk to them.

Everyone should read Leo Herrera's book on analog cruising and get better at this again. Even if you met them in public, you get on Grindr later and then you send them your dick pics and talk about what you'd like to have happen. you might suck at it. You'll definitely suck at it. Give yourself permission to not be great at it the first time and you'll feel less anxiety.

Everyone should read Leo Herrera's book on analog cruising and get better at this again. Even if you met them in public, you get on Grindr later and then you send them your dick pics and talk about what you'd like to have happen. you might suck at it. You'll definitely suck at it. Give yourself permission to not be great at it the first time and you'll feel less anxiety.

And no guy is going to expect you to be the best cocksucker that they've ever had their cock sucked by when it's the first cock you've ever had in your mouth. The fact that it's the first cock you've ever had in your mouth is some compensation for the possibility that the blow job won't be as good as the blow job that guy's gotten from other guys who've had a million dicks in their mouth.

And no guy is going to expect you to be the best cocksucker that they've ever had their cock sucked by when it's the first cock you've ever had in your mouth. The fact that it's the first cock you've ever had in your mouth is some compensation for the possibility that the blow job won't be as good as the blow job that guy's gotten from other guys who've had a million dicks in their mouth.

And it's not nothing as compensations go for a lot of guys, that would be pretty exciting. So yeah, you're how old are you? It's in here in my 32 years old. You've been bi curious for a decade. I get it. I remember first time I saw it, I was 16 years old.

And it's not nothing as compensations go for a lot of guys, that would be pretty exciting. So yeah, you're how old are you? It's in here in my 32 years old. You've been bi curious for a decade. I get it. I remember first time I saw it, I was 16 years old.

I was a nervous wreck right before, during, right after I probably wasn't that great at, well, actually I was told I was pretty good at it anyway. Yeah. Give yourself permission to be bad at it. Be honest with the guy that you want to get with about how inexperienced you are. Any guy who doesn't want to be your first. is going to decline to be your first.

I was a nervous wreck right before, during, right after I probably wasn't that great at, well, actually I was told I was pretty good at it anyway. Yeah. Give yourself permission to be bad at it. Be honest with the guy that you want to get with about how inexperienced you are. Any guy who doesn't want to be your first. is going to decline to be your first.

If they know they're your first guy, then you're going to have to pick through the guys who would be psyched to be your first or your second and meet up with them. And you know,

If they know they're your first guy, then you're going to have to pick through the guys who would be psyched to be your first or your second and meet up with them. And you know,

One thing you might have to let go from all of your previous sexual encounters, relationships, being with women, is this idea that you've gotten into your head that what women want to see if there's going to be a sexual encounter is that there's a possibility for a relationship there. That even that first sexual encounter is a step toward that relationship escalator.

One thing you might have to let go from all of your previous sexual encounters, relationships, being with women, is this idea that you've gotten into your head that what women want to see if there's going to be a sexual encounter is that there's a possibility for a relationship there. That even that first sexual encounter is a step toward that relationship escalator.

That's not what guys are looking for on Grindr. You don't have to worry about getting into bed with some guy who's secretly hoping that you will marry him. No guy off Grindr meeting up with a 32-year-old bi guy who's never fucked a guy is thinking about the wedding. They're just thinking about the dick. Time for listener feedback.

That's not what guys are looking for on Grindr. You don't have to worry about getting into bed with some guy who's secretly hoping that you will marry him. No guy off Grindr meeting up with a 32-year-old bi guy who's never fucked a guy is thinking about the wedding. They're just thinking about the dick. Time for listener feedback.

First up, some of the comments left on last week's show in the very lively comment threads at savage.love. Says Compass, I so enjoyed listening to John and Maria. My husband and I are not into BDSM, but we do like to share each other with others. Not a frequent experience. Once every two or three years. That works for us. Cheers, though, to a lovely couple.

First up, some of the comments left on last week's show in the very lively comment threads at savage.love. Says Compass, I so enjoyed listening to John and Maria. My husband and I are not into BDSM, but we do like to share each other with others. Not a frequent experience. Once every two or three years. That works for us. Cheers, though, to a lovely couple.

Please, Dan, more interviews with those who have made their shared desires work for them. I really like what are you doing? Well, Compass, you'll be glad to hear then that we are planning to do more what are you doing's in the future. Says Jonathan, I've got to say I'm not convinced that a vasectomy wouldn't change the look slash taste of cum.

Please, Dan, more interviews with those who have made their shared desires work for them. I really like what are you doing? Well, Compass, you'll be glad to hear then that we are planning to do more what are you doing's in the future. Says Jonathan, I've got to say I'm not convinced that a vasectomy wouldn't change the look slash taste of cum.

I understand the argument from low percentage by mass or volume, sure, but salt or hot sauce are low percentages of a dish and omitting them changes things recognizably. But, says Applescruff909, as somebody who has ingested both pre- and post-vasectomy ejaculate, I submit that in my experience, the flavor did not change.