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All right, coming up on today's show, tons of your Qs, lots of my As, and joining me on the Magnum, by day, Maria and John appear to be your average suburban couple, but by night and on weekends, they create and share some of the hottest femdom and cuckold content on the internet. Maria and John, join me for a very special installment of What Are You Doing? All that coming up on today's show.

All right, coming up on today's show, tons of your Qs, lots of my As, and joining me on the Magnum, by day, Maria and John appear to be your average suburban couple, but by night and on weekends, they create and share some of the hottest femdom and cuckold content on the internet. Maria and John, join me for a very special installment of What Are You Doing? All that coming up on today's show.

Let's get to that first question.

Let's get to that first question.

Mask, masculine, is a perfectly legitimate gender expression for an assigned male at birth person. There is this... I don't know this attitude, this posture, this creeping sense in queer land that the only authentic, truly authentic gender presentation for someone assigned male at birth is a femme presentation.

Mask, masculine, is a perfectly legitimate gender expression for an assigned male at birth person. There is this... I don't know this attitude, this posture, this creeping sense in queer land that the only authentic, truly authentic gender presentation for someone assigned male at birth is a femme presentation.

And the only authentic gender presentation for someone assigned female at birth is a mask presentation. And anybody who is assigned male at birth, whose mask is acting or performing and anyone who's Signed female birth whose femme is performing that gendered stereotype. It's just not true. For some people, kind of mask, not presentation, it's not an act. It's who they are authentically.

And the only authentic gender presentation for someone assigned female at birth is a mask presentation. And anybody who is assigned male at birth, whose mask is acting or performing and anyone who's Signed female birth whose femme is performing that gendered stereotype. It's just not true. For some people, kind of mask, not presentation, it's not an act. It's who they are authentically.

It's perfectly legitimate. And queer people, least of all, should slouch around making assumptions about people based on their gender presentation. So look, I'm sorry some people have like said shitty things to you. People have certainly said shitty things to me. Welcome to being queer.

It's perfectly legitimate. And queer people, least of all, should slouch around making assumptions about people based on their gender presentation. So look, I'm sorry some people have like said shitty things to you. People have certainly said shitty things to me. Welcome to being queer.

Sometimes people say shitty things to you about your sexual orientation or your gender expression or whatever else because they're shitty people or they don't understand yet. And maybe them saying a shitty thing to you is an opportunity to tell them a few things and educate them. But You are who you are. And bi pan, the line between bi pan can be pretty blurry.

Sometimes people say shitty things to you about your sexual orientation or your gender expression or whatever else because they're shitty people or they don't understand yet. And maybe them saying a shitty thing to you is an opportunity to tell them a few things and educate them. But You are who you are. And bi pan, the line between bi pan can be pretty blurry.

I've always loved bisexual activist Robin Oaks' definition of bisexuality. I call myself bisexual because I acknowledge in myself the potential to be attracted romantically and or sexually to people of more than one gender, not necessarily at the same time, in the same way, or to the same degree. That definition of bisexuality, to me, seems to encompass a kind of pansexual vibe.

I've always loved bisexual activist Robin Oaks' definition of bisexuality. I call myself bisexual because I acknowledge in myself the potential to be attracted romantically and or sexually to people of more than one gender, not necessarily at the same time, in the same way, or to the same degree. That definition of bisexuality, to me, seems to encompass a kind of pansexual vibe.

There are some people who think bi emphasizes a binary, but it could also emphasize, as Oaks does there, the binary between being attracted to only one gender and being attracted to more than one gender. That also could be a bit... bi binary without being only attracted to males or females or AFAB people or AMAB people, whatever. You're legit.

There are some people who think bi emphasizes a binary, but it could also emphasize, as Oaks does there, the binary between being attracted to only one gender and being attracted to more than one gender. That also could be a bit... bi binary without being only attracted to males or females or AFAB people or AMAB people, whatever. You're legit.

If you want to identify as bi or you want to identify as pan, and that's legitimately queer. Even if you're assigned male at birth and you have a mask, authentic gender expression, and nobody gets to tell you you ain't queer or take that away from you.