Dan Savage

You will regret not having had a kinky partner that whole time whose kinks you were indulging and enjoying indulging because you enjoyed giving your partner pleasure who now that you're 35 years old and suddenly interested in S&M or whatever else now they owe you. So anyway, short answer, are there women foot fetishists out there?

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Joining me to help tackle this question, AJ Berlin, who has lived in Berlin for eight years, been going to Folsom Berlin for many of those years, a kink educator, teaches BDSM workshops across Europe, and is a gay man or was more gay with pan sprinkles now. AJ, welcome to the Savage Lovecast.

Joining me to help tackle this question, AJ Berlin, who has lived in Berlin for eight years, been going to Folsom Berlin for many of those years, a kink educator, teaches BDSM workshops across Europe, and is a gay man or was more gay with pan sprinkles now. AJ, welcome to the Savage Lovecast.

So Folsom Berlin, when she asks if I'm aware of any, you know, big leather fetish events that aren't geared exclusively toward gay men, I want to say, yeah, Folsom SF. But Folsom Berlin ain't Folsom SF, is it?

So Folsom Berlin, when she asks if I'm aware of any, you know, big leather fetish events that aren't geared exclusively toward gay men, I want to say, yeah, Folsom SF. But Folsom Berlin ain't Folsom SF, is it?

However, there are... Wait, they're by queer people for queer people or by gay men for gay men, many of the events?

However, there are... Wait, they're by queer people for queer people or by gay men for gay men, many of the events?

But she says she's tried to look around at the events attached to Folsom Berlin, and a lot of them are for men only. Are they not?

But she says she's tried to look around at the events attached to Folsom Berlin, and a lot of them are for men only. Are they not?

And that's okay, right? Gay men are allowed to have some events that are for gay men?

And that's okay, right? Gay men are allowed to have some events that are for gay men?

That said, in Berlin, there are a lot more events and fetish parties that are a lot more inclusive and welcoming. And when we talk about the events attached to Folsom Berlin, we mean the parties a lot. And I go to Folsom Berlin. I've been a bunch of times. I've never been to the parties, but the street festival, which is what a lot of people go for. I see lots of women at the street festival.