Dan Savage

is one I only entertain after I've visited my local pot shop. All right, finally, before we get to the show, quick note.

is one I only entertain after I've visited my local pot shop. All right, finally, before we get to the show, quick note.

After Diana Adams of the Chosen Family Law Center came on the show back in November to urge trans and non-binary listeners to get their government documents in order with their correct gender markers, a small handful of people reached out to me to say that I was being alarmist, and so was Diana.

After Diana Adams of the Chosen Family Law Center came on the show back in November to urge trans and non-binary listeners to get their government documents in order with their correct gender markers, a small handful of people reached out to me to say that I was being alarmist, and so was Diana.

And then the first thing Marco Rubio did after being sworn in as Trump's Secretary of State was suspend passport applications for anyone seeking to change their sex marker. So Diana was right to raise the alarm. And I hope the trans and non-binary people out there who listened to that show took Diana's advice and got their passports updated while they still could. And not to be alarmist...

And then the first thing Marco Rubio did after being sworn in as Trump's Secretary of State was suspend passport applications for anyone seeking to change their sex marker. So Diana was right to raise the alarm. And I hope the trans and non-binary people out there who listened to that show took Diana's advice and got their passports updated while they still could. And not to be alarmist...

But when countries have persecuted a small minority of their citizens while at the same time making it harder or impossible for members of that minority to travel abroad to escape persecution, almost always a bad sign of the direction in which that country is headed. All right, everybody, sorry about the downbeat opening this week.

But when countries have persecuted a small minority of their citizens while at the same time making it harder or impossible for members of that minority to travel abroad to escape persecution, almost always a bad sign of the direction in which that country is headed. All right, everybody, sorry about the downbeat opening this week.

I will keep my eyes peeled for a fun and juicy sex scandal to open next week's show with, I promise.

I will keep my eyes peeled for a fun and juicy sex scandal to open next week's show with, I promise.

All right, coming up on today's show, tons of your Qs, lots of my As, and joining me on the magnum that you can subscribe to at savage.love, cultural historian Dr. Kelly Coyne joins me for a conversation about all the different creative ways people are arranging their lives these days, their domestic situations, their domestic arrangements, and how, as usual, the gaze paved the way.

All right, coming up on today's show, tons of your Qs, lots of my As, and joining me on the magnum that you can subscribe to at savage.love, cultural historian Dr. Kelly Coyne joins me for a conversation about all the different creative ways people are arranging their lives these days, their domestic situations, their domestic arrangements, and how, as usual, the gaze paved the way.

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All right, what I'm supposed to say, am I cheating on my wife? You asked me, am I cheating on my wife? And I'm supposed to tell you, only your wife can answer this question. Go ask your wife if you're cheating on your wife when you get into these one-on-one sessions with cam girls that you spend a couple of grand a year enjoying. So now I've said that. That's my official position.

All right, what I'm supposed to say, am I cheating on my wife? You asked me, am I cheating on my wife? And I'm supposed to tell you, only your wife can answer this question. Go ask your wife if you're cheating on your wife when you get into these one-on-one sessions with cam girls that you spend a couple of grand a year enjoying. So now I've said that. That's my official position.

Only your wife could tell you whether she would regard this as cheating. And cheating in the context of a committed relationship is something that only those two people can define together. Different couples have different definitions of cheating. I want to complicate that with you are entitled to a zone of erotic autonomy.

Only your wife could tell you whether she would regard this as cheating. And cheating in the context of a committed relationship is something that only those two people can define together. Different couples have different definitions of cheating. I want to complicate that with you are entitled to a zone of erotic autonomy.