Dan Savage

And when Esther Perel talks about the burden of knowing when it comes to actual affairs, she cautions people about the damage it can do to your relationship to the unburden yourself of the guilt, to relieve yourself of the guilt by telling your partner absolutely everything, including things they might not want to know. And once you tell them, won't be able to unknow.

And when Esther Perel talks about the burden of knowing when it comes to actual affairs, she cautions people about the damage it can do to your relationship to the unburden yourself of the guilt, to relieve yourself of the guilt by telling your partner absolutely everything, including things they might not want to know. And once you tell them, won't be able to unknow.

And I think the fact that your wife, you and your wife both have created time and space in your relationships where she masturbates, you have a low sex relationship, but she enjoys masturbation, you enjoy masturbation, you don't give each other grief about that.

And I think the fact that your wife, you and your wife both have created time and space in your relationships where she masturbates, you have a low sex relationship, but she enjoys masturbation, you enjoy masturbation, you don't give each other grief about that.

There's no resentment curdling the relationship because we haven't had sex for a couple of weeks and you just went off and had a wank that your wife... while not having specifically consented to this exact kind of behavior, has acknowledged that this is whatever you do when you're alone and masturbating is your private time, private space, that you are when you close that door and she's in her...

There's no resentment curdling the relationship because we haven't had sex for a couple of weeks and you just went off and had a wank that your wife... while not having specifically consented to this exact kind of behavior, has acknowledged that this is whatever you do when you're alone and masturbating is your private time, private space, that you are when you close that door and she's in her...

home office working and you're in the bedroom masturbating, that you have entered that zone of erotic autonomy that she respects. She has signaled and telegraphed to you that she respects your erotic autonomy during wank time as you respect hers during wank time. And you are therefore not obligated to share with her details that might be a burden to her.

home office working and you're in the bedroom masturbating, that you have entered that zone of erotic autonomy that she respects. She has signaled and telegraphed to you that she respects your erotic autonomy during wank time as you respect hers during wank time. And you are therefore not obligated to share with her details that might be a burden to her.

And the fact that she knows that you watch cam girls sometimes when you masturbate and she may assume that you are one of dozens or hundreds or thousands of men watching a particular cam girl as she is online live masturbating. When in reality, every once in a while, occasionally there's an audience of one to get into that kind of fine grained detail.

And the fact that she knows that you watch cam girls sometimes when you masturbate and she may assume that you are one of dozens or hundreds or thousands of men watching a particular cam girl as she is online live masturbating. When in reality, every once in a while, occasionally there's an audience of one to get into that kind of fine grained detail.

Maybe she just doesn't want to know the fact that she hasn't interrogated you about this. Maybe a signal that. Not that she wouldn't be bothered by this if she knew, but that she doesn't want to know things that potentially she might be bothered by. So are you cheating on your wife? I don't know. Maybe.

Maybe she just doesn't want to know the fact that she hasn't interrogated you about this. Maybe a signal that. Not that she wouldn't be bothered by this if she knew, but that she doesn't want to know things that potentially she might be bothered by. So are you cheating on your wife? I don't know. Maybe.

Maybe your wife would feel like this was approaching infidelity, especially if you have ongoing connections with some of these girls where they're happy to see you and you're happy to see them. Maybe that would approach a kind of porn-enabled, internet-enabled emotional infidelity that she wouldn't be comfortable with. So don't tell her about it. Don't tell her about it.

Maybe your wife would feel like this was approaching infidelity, especially if you have ongoing connections with some of these girls where they're happy to see you and you're happy to see them. Maybe that would approach a kind of porn-enabled, internet-enabled emotional infidelity that she wouldn't be comfortable with. So don't tell her about it. Don't tell her about it.

Take the yes that you've been given, that yes, you are entitled to the zone of erotic autonomy, and I am not going to interrogate you about what goes on in that room when you're sitting in front of your computer with your dick in your hand having a wank. Your wife has signaled to you that she doesn't want to know. Don't fuck it up by telling her.

Take the yes that you've been given, that yes, you are entitled to the zone of erotic autonomy, and I am not going to interrogate you about what goes on in that room when you're sitting in front of your computer with your dick in your hand having a wank. Your wife has signaled to you that she doesn't want to know. Don't fuck it up by telling her.

Don't fuck up your relationship by telling her something that she has already, you know, the vague outlines of. And if she was curious or wanted that outline filled in, she would ask and she hasn't asked. Don't tell. This goes out to my fellow men. Life is pretty stressful and it's getting stressier all the time.

Don't fuck up your relationship by telling her something that she has already, you know, the vague outlines of. And if she was curious or wanted that outline filled in, she would ask and she hasn't asked. Don't tell. This goes out to my fellow men. Life is pretty stressful and it's getting stressier all the time.

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