Dan Savage

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Like the previous caller, it could be that your body has changed, that there have been physical changes as you've aged. But rather than just kind of rolling with that for now, and you can come. You can come with a vibrator. You still are orgasmic. You are capable of achieving orgasms.

Like the previous caller, it could be that your body has changed, that there have been physical changes as you've aged. But rather than just kind of rolling with that for now, and you can come. You can come with a vibrator. You still are orgasmic. You are capable of achieving orgasms.

But rather than just accept that maybe like your body is changing and what you need to hit it with is a little different now as you get a little older, you're looking for something external that's changed, a change of circumstance that would explain away this physical change that could be permanent and you may just have to roll with or could be temporary. But I do think there's something to...

But rather than just accept that maybe like your body is changing and what you need to hit it with is a little different now as you get a little older, you're looking for something external that's changed, a change of circumstance that would explain away this physical change that could be permanent and you may just have to roll with or could be temporary. But I do think there's something to...

your fantasy life, to what your erotic imagination was doing, the boost that was giving you when your partner, your previous partner, when you were not poly, when you were in what I assume to be a closed, at that time, a closed monogamous relationship. And you would fantasize about your partner getting with somebody else and that would carry the ball the last 10 yards.

your fantasy life, to what your erotic imagination was doing, the boost that was giving you when your partner, your previous partner, when you were not poly, when you were in what I assume to be a closed, at that time, a closed monogamous relationship. And you would fantasize about your partner getting with somebody else and that would carry the ball the last 10 yards.

There you go, everybody's sports metaphor. And you would come and And now you can't – that go-to fantasy doesn't work as well for you anymore because you're in poly relationships now and your partners have partners. So what does that mean?

There you go, everybody's sports metaphor. And you would come and And now you can't – that go-to fantasy doesn't work as well for you anymore because you're in poly relationships now and your partners have partners. So what does that mean?

That means when you were fantasizing about that partner you had a monogamous commitment with, when you thought about them with somebody else, it was a violation. It was a transgression. Even if it's no longer a violation or a transgression for your poly partners, your other partners to have other partners to come in or on other women –

That means when you were fantasizing about that partner you had a monogamous commitment with, when you thought about them with somebody else, it was a violation. It was a transgression. Even if it's no longer a violation or a transgression for your poly partners, your other partners to have other partners to come in or on other women –

okay, how do you get back what's at the core of that cut queen fantasy of yours, which was the transgressiveness of it, the violation of it, the betrayal of it? How do you pick out of the cut queen fantasies, these deeper themes, or how do you tap into those deeper themes and currents that really your cut queen fantasy was born along by, floated around on top of? Okay, so I think

okay, how do you get back what's at the core of that cut queen fantasy of yours, which was the transgressiveness of it, the violation of it, the betrayal of it? How do you pick out of the cut queen fantasies, these deeper themes, or how do you tap into those deeper themes and currents that really your cut queen fantasy was born along by, floated around on top of? Okay, so I think

What arouses a lot of cuckolds about cuckolding when they're in cuckold relationships where the person can sleep with other people is the imbalance of it all, the unfairness of it all.

What arouses a lot of cuckolds about cuckolding when they're in cuckold relationships where the person can sleep with other people is the imbalance of it all, the unfairness of it all.

What is it that your partners now, your dominant partner, your other partners, what is it that they could be allowed to do or get away with that you could make an agreement with them that you were not allowed to do and that brought to those relationships and these sexual interactions, something that you could fantasize about or even talk about with your partner while they're going down on you.

What is it that your partners now, your dominant partner, your other partners, what is it that they could be allowed to do or get away with that you could make an agreement with them that you were not allowed to do and that brought to those relationships and these sexual interactions, something that you could fantasize about or even talk about with your partner while they're going down on you.