Dan Savage

I've been approached by white couples looking for a bull and have been incredibly turned off by it. I find a lot of these couples have extremely problematic views of black men and most have right leaning politics.

I've been approached by white couples looking for a bull and have been incredibly turned off by it. I find a lot of these couples have extremely problematic views of black men and most have right leaning politics.

I obviously don't speak for all black men, but I just find the whole queen slash bull situation to be incredibly fraught with problematic people that I would never feel comfortable in bed with. Says Happy Hubby, also about my interview with Doc Chocolate, we've always been uncomfortable with the term BBC, which can be reductive and objectifying. We think of it in terms of BGE, Black Guy Energy.

I obviously don't speak for all black men, but I just find the whole queen slash bull situation to be incredibly fraught with problematic people that I would never feel comfortable in bed with. Says Happy Hubby, also about my interview with Doc Chocolate, we've always been uncomfortable with the term BBC, which can be reductive and objectifying. We think of it in terms of BGE, Black Guy Energy.

It's a different vibe than the nerdy white guy energy I bring, and the juxtaposition is an exciting difference.

It's a different vibe than the nerdy white guy energy I bring, and the juxtaposition is an exciting difference.

There are a lot more comments, tons of great, helpful, insightful, interesting comments on last week's show, including a lot of great advice for the caller who is losing his hair, a big debate about autism, self-diagnosed or otherwise, and when and how it's best to meet a new partner's kids from a previous relationship.

There are a lot more comments, tons of great, helpful, insightful, interesting comments on last week's show, including a lot of great advice for the caller who is losing his hair, a big debate about autism, self-diagnosed or otherwise, and when and how it's best to meet a new partner's kids from a previous relationship.

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I want to thank, just take a minute to thank all the commenters at savage.love. You guys prove every week that savage.love is the one place on the internet where you should read the comments. For more listener feedback and my response to listener comments and reader comments, be sure to check out Struggle Session, which you can find every Thursday at savage.love.

Just go click on column and it'll be right there. And now everyone's favorite part of the show. Mine included the part where I shut my big gay mouth and my listeners get the last word.

Just go click on column and it'll be right there. And now everyone's favorite part of the show. Mine included the part where I shut my big gay mouth and my listeners get the last word.

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And we're going to leave it there. To get us a question or a comment for a future show, go to savage.love.com. Or you can make a voice memo and email it to us at q.savage.love. Or you can call us at 206-302-2064 and leave us a message on our answering machine. Hump 2025 kicks off the 20th anniversary. Hump Film Festival kicks off in just three weeks. Tickets are going fast.

Get your tickets now for shows, the premier shows in Seattle, San Francisco, and Portland. I will be hosting screenings in SF and Seattle. And to mark Hump's 20th anniversary, we are throwing opening night and closing night parties in each of those cities. Come out and watch this incredible new lineup of films and celebrate with us Hump Turning 2025.

Get your tickets now for shows, the premier shows in Seattle, San Francisco, and Portland. I will be hosting screenings in SF and Seattle. And to mark Hump's 20th anniversary, we are throwing opening night and closing night parties in each of those cities. Come out and watch this incredible new lineup of films and celebrate with us Hump Turning 2025.

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The Savage Lovecast is produced every week by Nancy Hartunian and me and the tech savvy at-risk youth and Nancy. We will all be back at you next week with another installment of the Savage Lovecast. Thank you for tuning in.

The Savage Lovecast is produced every week by Nancy Hartunian and me and the tech savvy at-risk youth and Nancy. We will all be back at you next week with another installment of the Savage Lovecast. Thank you for tuning in.