Dan Savage

All legitimate things, no cute name goes on, but so overused. No one's an asshole any longer. Now they're a narcissist. A person wasn't lied to. He was gaslighted. My friend wasn't swept off her feet. She was love bombed. No one is so insecure that they sabotage every relationship they're in. They all have anxious attachment styles." Well put, no cute name. Wished I had put it that way myself.

All legitimate things, no cute name goes on, but so overused. No one's an asshole any longer. Now they're a narcissist. A person wasn't lied to. He was gaslighted. My friend wasn't swept off her feet. She was love bombed. No one is so insecure that they sabotage every relationship they're in. They all have anxious attachment styles." Well put, no cute name. Wished I had put it that way myself.

And finally, says Apple Scruff, it was kind of off-putting how gatekeepy Dan was being about how people should, shouldn't celebrate and wish other people well on the Feast of the Ass. If the day is not meant exclusively for people who eat ass, why does it matter anyway if people want to celebrate with delicious fudge tunnel cakes?

And finally, says Apple Scruff, it was kind of off-putting how gatekeepy Dan was being about how people should, shouldn't celebrate and wish other people well on the Feast of the Ass. If the day is not meant exclusively for people who eat ass, why does it matter anyway if people want to celebrate with delicious fudge tunnel cakes?

To paraphrase Dickens, keep Feast of the Ass in your own way and let me keep it.

To paraphrase Dickens, keep Feast of the Ass in your own way and let me keep it.

in mine hey now apple scruff i am doing the work here single-handedly reviving this holiday with the help of course of all the singers and songwriters who wrote those amazing beast of the ass carols look i'm just trying to get something wonderful going for people at the least wonderful time of the year the pothole between new year's and saint valentine's day i created a mascot came up with munchies i got people to make music i'm basically the creative director of photo

in mine hey now apple scruff i am doing the work here single-handedly reviving this holiday with the help of course of all the singers and songwriters who wrote those amazing beast of the ass carols look i'm just trying to get something wonderful going for people at the least wonderful time of the year the pothole between new year's and saint valentine's day i created a mascot came up with munchies i got people to make music i'm basically the creative director of photo

Feast of the Ass. And I reserve the right, at least now while we're still getting Feast of the Ass off the ground, to be a little gatekeepy about it. Next year, you can go crazy with those Tunnel of Fudge Cakes, but this year, not allowed, at least at my Feast of the Ass celebration. All right, for more listener feedback, check out Struggle Session every Thursday at savage.love.

Feast of the Ass. And I reserve the right, at least now while we're still getting Feast of the Ass off the ground, to be a little gatekeepy about it. Next year, you can go crazy with those Tunnel of Fudge Cakes, but this year, not allowed, at least at my Feast of the Ass celebration. All right, for more listener feedback, check out Struggle Session every Thursday at savage.love.

And now, everyone's favorite part of the show, the part of the show where I shut my big gay mouth and let my listeners get the last word.

And now, everyone's favorite part of the show, the part of the show where I shut my big gay mouth and let my listeners get the last word.

And we're going to leave it there. You can record and upload questions and comments for future shows at savage.love.com. Or you can make a voice memo on your very own phone and email it to us at q.savage.love. Or you can leave us a message at 206-302-2064. Magnum subs. Our next Savage Love Live is January 23rd, noon Pacific. And we're going to have a very special guest, my husband.

And we're going to leave it there. You can record and upload questions and comments for future shows at savage.love.com. Or you can make a voice memo on your very own phone and email it to us at q.savage.love. Or you can leave us a message at 206-302-2064. Magnum subs. Our next Savage Love Live is January 23rd, noon Pacific. And we're going to have a very special guest, my husband.

Since January 23rd is our 30th anniversary. So if there's anything you've ever wanted to ask Terry, this is your chance. Tickets for the 20th anniversary Hump Film Festival on sale now. And to celebrate this milestone, 20 years of Hump, we're throwing multiple after parties in Seattle, Portland, and San Francisco produced by our partners at Flura.

Since January 23rd is our 30th anniversary. So if there's anything you've ever wanted to ask Terry, this is your chance. Tickets for the 20th anniversary Hump Film Festival on sale now. And to celebrate this milestone, 20 years of Hump, we're throwing multiple after parties in Seattle, Portland, and San Francisco produced by our partners at Flura.

Get your tickets to Hump before they sell out by going to humpfilmfest.com. Follow me on Instagram and threads and blue sky at Dan Savage. Follow Rebecca Wolf on Instagram and threads at Rebecca Wolf with three O's. And you can find her newsletter, the braid at Rebecca Wolf dot sub stack.com.

Get your tickets to Hump before they sell out by going to humpfilmfest.com. Follow me on Instagram and threads and blue sky at Dan Savage. Follow Rebecca Wolf on Instagram and threads at Rebecca Wolf with three O's. And you can find her newsletter, the braid at Rebecca Wolf dot sub stack.com.

The savage love cast is produced every week by Nancy Artunian and me and Nancy and the tech savvy at risk youth. We will all be back at you next week. Another installment of the savage love cast. Thank you for downloading. Hey, stick around. If you want to hear the winning beast of the ass Carol, which is coming right up.

The savage love cast is produced every week by Nancy Artunian and me and Nancy and the tech savvy at risk youth. We will all be back at you next week. Another installment of the savage love cast. Thank you for downloading. Hey, stick around. If you want to hear the winning beast of the ass Carol, which is coming right up.