Dan Savage

Women can potentially have more than one orgasm. Women's orgasms often will lead to more orgasms. A woman is still in the game sexually after her orgasm, whether it's the only one she wants to have or it's the first of the several that she wants to have and can have and has the capacity to have. Women are potentially sexually insatiable superpower.

Women can potentially have more than one orgasm. Women's orgasms often will lead to more orgasms. A woman is still in the game sexually after her orgasm, whether it's the only one she wants to have or it's the first of the several that she wants to have and can have and has the capacity to have. Women are potentially sexually insatiable superpower.

Dude, so you have that one pathetic orgasm and you kind of crash out. Your body is flooded with... Hormones that knock your dick out, make your erection go away. Suddenly things that were really compelling like shoving your face in someone's ass and eating their hole are a little like, not too interested in that right now.

Dude, so you have that one pathetic orgasm and you kind of crash out. Your body is flooded with... Hormones that knock your dick out, make your erection go away. Suddenly things that were really compelling like shoving your face in someone's ass and eating their hole are a little like, not too interested in that right now.

But even if you lose interest in sex after having your single pathetic male orgasm, you don't lose interest in your sex partner and you don't lose interest in, I'm sorry to make it sound transactional, but your obligation to your sex partner, right?

But even if you lose interest in sex after having your single pathetic male orgasm, you don't lose interest in your sex partner and you don't lose interest in, I'm sorry to make it sound transactional, but your obligation to your sex partner, right?

And to rationalize it with attempting to guilt your sex partner for having heteronormative expectations about orgasms and sex meaning orgasms, yeah, all sex doesn't have to end with an orgasm. But that is the option of the person who is having sex with you. You do not get to decide for them whether an orgasm is a priority during this sexual encounter, particularly if you've just had yours.

And to rationalize it with attempting to guilt your sex partner for having heteronormative expectations about orgasms and sex meaning orgasms, yeah, all sex doesn't have to end with an orgasm. But that is the option of the person who is having sex with you. You do not get to decide for them whether an orgasm is a priority during this sexual encounter, particularly if you've just had yours.

So there's no mystery here. There's just the devil citing scripture for his own purpose. There are just a couple of shitty straight guys who are weaponizing queer discourse as you describe it, justify the shittiest of typical, uh, shitty heterosexual guy behavior, which is sex is all about me and my dick and the sex ends when I come. And if you haven't come by then, well, that's on you.

So there's no mystery here. There's just the devil citing scripture for his own purpose. There are just a couple of shitty straight guys who are weaponizing queer discourse as you describe it, justify the shittiest of typical, uh, shitty heterosexual guy behavior, which is sex is all about me and my dick and the sex ends when I come. And if you haven't come by then, well, that's on you.

Don't fuck those guys. Sometimes you're going to fuck those guys and you're only going to find out they're those guys when you fucked them and after you fucked them and they got up and jumped in the shower. And then you just don't fuck those guys again. But don't let those guys get in your head. You did nothing wrong here. You were absolutely the wronged party.

Don't fuck those guys. Sometimes you're going to fuck those guys and you're only going to find out they're those guys when you fucked them and after you fucked them and they got up and jumped in the shower. And then you just don't fuck those guys again. But don't let those guys get in your head. You did nothing wrong here. You were absolutely the wronged party.

You should advocate for yourself in a moment like that. He starts to get out of bed. You grab him by the balls and you pull him back into bed and say, hey, I need 10 more minutes. Focus. You get yours. You're more likely to get yours if you insist on getting yours. And if he still gets out of bed then, even as you're holding on to his ball sack, Let it go. Let him go.

You should advocate for yourself in a moment like that. He starts to get out of bed. You grab him by the balls and you pull him back into bed and say, hey, I need 10 more minutes. Focus. You get yours. You're more likely to get yours if you insist on getting yours. And if he still gets out of bed then, even as you're holding on to his ball sack, Let it go. Let him go.

And I know you didn't call them men. You called them people with penises. Maybe they identify as non-binary, but you know what? I'm not going to respect their non-binary identity if they are so in the thrall of such rank, bog, stupid, straight guy bullshit as I came, it's over. Sorry, that disqualifies you from they-them courtesies, at least on my show. All right, time for listener feedback.

And I know you didn't call them men. You called them people with penises. Maybe they identify as non-binary, but you know what? I'm not going to respect their non-binary identity if they are so in the thrall of such rank, bog, stupid, straight guy bullshit as I came, it's over. Sorry, that disqualifies you from they-them courtesies, at least on my show. All right, time for listener feedback.

First, some of the comments left on last week's show in the very lively comment threads at savage.love. Says Steve McLean, President Biden did not pardon anyone on death row, as you inadvertently stated at the top of the show last week, Dan. Sentences were commuted from execution to life without the possibility of parole. Your slip feeds the narrative that the right wing is out there espousing.

First, some of the comments left on last week's show in the very lively comment threads at savage.love. Says Steve McLean, President Biden did not pardon anyone on death row, as you inadvertently stated at the top of the show last week, Dan. Sentences were commuted from execution to life without the possibility of parole. Your slip feeds the narrative that the right wing is out there espousing.

Forgive me that slip, Steve. I said pardon. I meant commutation. Thank you for the correction. Says no cute name. Avoid an attachment style talk is just one more relic of self-help therapy speak culture going mainstream. Like love languages being triggered every time one doesn't like something. Gaslighting, narcissism, love bombing, breadcrumbing, trauma, and the like.

Forgive me that slip, Steve. I said pardon. I meant commutation. Thank you for the correction. Says no cute name. Avoid an attachment style talk is just one more relic of self-help therapy speak culture going mainstream. Like love languages being triggered every time one doesn't like something. Gaslighting, narcissism, love bombing, breadcrumbing, trauma, and the like.