Dan Savage

cranked them up however her reaction to you spotting that pic suddenly deleting everything off her phone oh no no that was a tell right that her explanation for the dick pic wasn't oh that's my ex and every once in a while i like to look at that dick and have a wank but i don't ever want to be with my ex again and i love your dick that she started deleting shit

cranked them up however her reaction to you spotting that pic suddenly deleting everything off her phone oh no no that was a tell right that her explanation for the dick pic wasn't oh that's my ex and every once in a while i like to look at that dick and have a wank but i don't ever want to be with my ex again and i love your dick that she started deleting shit

That was a sign that it was more than just some random or some ex that she had on her phone. Something was up. Your spidey senses were tingling and they should have been. We know now because this bitch had a secret second family. She was playing you. She was lying to you for four fucking years, leading you on in this really devastating way. People throw gaslighting around that term too loosely.

That was a sign that it was more than just some random or some ex that she had on her phone. Something was up. Your spidey senses were tingling and they should have been. We know now because this bitch had a secret second family. She was playing you. She was lying to you for four fucking years, leading you on in this really devastating way. People throw gaslighting around that term too loosely.

You were, I want to introduce my cat to your cat because we're going to live together. Meanwhile, I have a secret second family and properties I own. No intention of ever fucking living with you. And the let's introduce our cats to each other was this head fake to keep your dick coming. Yeah, that's gaslighting. And I am sorry that happened to you. How do you trust again? Your other question.

You were, I want to introduce my cat to your cat because we're going to live together. Meanwhile, I have a secret second family and properties I own. No intention of ever fucking living with you. And the let's introduce our cats to each other was this head fake to keep your dick coming. Yeah, that's gaslighting. And I am sorry that happened to you. How do you trust again? Your other question.

You will yourself too. You trust but verify. You Google people a little sooner than you might have started to Google this woman. You tell someone you trust them. You tell them you had a bad experience. You share this when you get to that stage of a relationship. When you move out of the...

You will yourself too. You trust but verify. You Google people a little sooner than you might have started to Google this woman. You tell someone you trust them. You tell them you had a bad experience. You share this when you get to that stage of a relationship. When you move out of the...

auditioning and, you know, stressing out to your friends about the things that are stressing out about the relationship and really processing with the person, not endlessly, but to come to, to make the relationship work, to adjust to each other emotionally. And at that moment you can share an insecurity and say, this is a thing that happened to me and it's crazy, but it's true.

auditioning and, you know, stressing out to your friends about the things that are stressing out about the relationship and really processing with the person, not endlessly, but to come to, to make the relationship work, to adjust to each other emotionally. And at that moment you can share an insecurity and say, this is a thing that happened to me and it's crazy, but it's true.

Right. And so, yeah, I need you to be straight with me. You got a secret second family. I need to hear that you don't. And I'll need some reassurance every once in a while. And please, if you start doing things that are. My brain might start adding them up in a way that's unfair to you because of what this shitty other person did to me.

Right. And so, yeah, I need you to be straight with me. You got a secret second family. I need to hear that you don't. And I'll need some reassurance every once in a while. And please, if you start doing things that are. My brain might start adding them up in a way that's unfair to you because of what this shitty other person did to me.

And we both might have to live with the consequences of what this shitty other person did to me, where I will be sometimes maybe even a little irrationally insecure and I'll need reassurance that you wouldn't have to give to somebody who didn't go through an experience like this. And if somebody loves you, they can hear that and they can come through with that kind of reassurance.

And we both might have to live with the consequences of what this shitty other person did to me, where I will be sometimes maybe even a little irrationally insecure and I'll need reassurance that you wouldn't have to give to somebody who didn't go through an experience like this. And if somebody loves you, they can hear that and they can come through with that kind of reassurance.

And if they're squirrely about coming through with that kind of reassurance, if they can't give that to you, okay, maybe they don't have the emotional tools to be in a relationship. Or maybe they have a secret second fucking family and a bunch of dick pics on their phone that are incriminating and not... Innocent.

And if they're squirrely about coming through with that kind of reassurance, if they can't give that to you, okay, maybe they don't have the emotional tools to be in a relationship. Or maybe they have a secret second fucking family and a bunch of dick pics on their phone that are incriminating and not... Innocent.

And yes, I do think it's possible for somebody to have innocent dick pics of other people's dicks on their phone. That makes me an outlier in the sex and relationship advice racket. But it is what I think, and you did call me. This episode is brought to you by Helix Sleep.

And yes, I do think it's possible for somebody to have innocent dick pics of other people's dicks on their phone. That makes me an outlier in the sex and relationship advice racket. But it is what I think, and you did call me. This episode is brought to you by Helix Sleep.

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I have had my Helix Sleep mattress since 2020 and my mattress love, my affection for my mattress, my relationship with my mattress, and I'm sure you're all really curious about, is going strong. I really do love all of my Helix mattresses and all of the people I get to love on my Helix mattresses.