Dan Savage

Thank you, Pushing Squares, for bringing that to my attention. I wasn't aware of that scam. I am now. People, if somebody sends you a large sum of money and asks you to send it back, don't send it back. Just like there's no crying in baseball, there are no refunds in Fyndom.

Thank you, Pushing Squares, for bringing that to my attention. I wasn't aware of that scam. I am now. People, if somebody sends you a large sum of money and asks you to send it back, don't send it back. Just like there's no crying in baseball, there are no refunds in Fyndom.

Says Lars to the 30-something woman who's been dating a guy for the last few months but no sleepovers, haven't met any of his friends or his family. Call or confirm his name, where he lives, what his job is, everything. Because there is about a 93.7% chance you're the side piece and his quote-unquote ex is his wife or life partner.

Says Lars to the 30-something woman who's been dating a guy for the last few months but no sleepovers, haven't met any of his friends or his family. Call or confirm his name, where he lives, what his job is, everything. Because there is about a 93.7% chance you're the side piece and his quote-unquote ex is his wife or life partner.

Says by DanFan, Dan, you missed one important point in the call from the man who thought his nephew, with the conservative religious parents who goes to the conservative religious church, might be gay. What if he isn't?

Says by DanFan, Dan, you missed one important point in the call from the man who thought his nephew, with the conservative religious parents who goes to the conservative religious church, might be gay. What if he isn't?

This is another big reason why the caller shouldn't lead with, I know or suspect you're gay and it's okay with me, because if the nephew is straight, that could push him to become more outwardly homophobic or toxically masculine to try to dispel such assumptions.

This is another big reason why the caller shouldn't lead with, I know or suspect you're gay and it's okay with me, because if the nephew is straight, that could push him to become more outwardly homophobic or toxically masculine to try to dispel such assumptions.

Caller should say something like, I know your church isn't a very tolerant place, but I want you to know that I'll accept you no matter what. That could include the nephew being gay, but also kinky, poly, etc. Thank you, ByDanFan. That is good advice, better maybe than my advice to invite the might-be-gay nephew to a screening of Wicked. Thank you, as ever, ByDanFan, for your comments.

Caller should say something like, I know your church isn't a very tolerant place, but I want you to know that I'll accept you no matter what. That could include the nephew being gay, but also kinky, poly, etc. Thank you, ByDanFan. That is good advice, better maybe than my advice to invite the might-be-gay nephew to a screening of Wicked. Thank you, as ever, ByDanFan, for your comments.

All right, for more listener feedback, check out Struggle Session every Thursday at savage.love. And now, everyone's favorite part of the show, the part where I shut my big gay mouth and let my listeners get the last word.

All right, for more listener feedback, check out Struggle Session every Thursday at savage.love. And now, everyone's favorite part of the show, the part where I shut my big gay mouth and let my listeners get the last word.

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