Danette

She had this stuffed animal that she gave him because they've been long distance for the last year.

She asked me if I could get it from him.

It's been just over a month and she has started to heal and reflect and get better.

I met her ex to get her stuffed animal and he asked if I could talk to him for a few minutes.

I agreed and he said he regrets everything.

He wants to reach out to her and try to win her back.

I told him she has reflected and started to move on and her mental state is pretty bad.

She has lost a lot of trust in him and the damage seems irreparable.

I was talking to her today and asked her what she would do if he came back to her and she said she doesn't know.

I don't know if I should tell her about the conversation that I had with her ex or leave it.

He did say he would like to reach out to her and I told him you do what you feel is right but my two cents is that she wouldn't be interested.

Now that I know her answer isn't a clear no, I don't know what to do.

He isn't good for her, but it's not my place to decide.

Ideal outcome?

Just know what to do.

Should I protect my sister and not tell her this?

Or should I tell her what he said and possibly ruin her healing process?

Additional info, my sister is 30, her ex is 29, she has issues with him being controlling, he has past traumas about long-distance relationships and being cheated on, which apparently made him this way.

I'm down for it.

Yeah.