Danette

While they don't just walk into our house, they are very overbearing in other ways, always needing to know everyone's business, always involved, always present.

And I feel like no matter what, I will always come second to his family dynamic.

What hurts the most is realizing that what I thought was temporary has turned into a permanent decision that I don't get a say in.

I love him, but I'm terrified that if I stay, I'll slowly lose myself trying to fit into a life that was already built without me even in mind.

Ideal outcome, get advice on the situation from a guy's point of view.

Is this a deal breaker?

I think couples counseling could be good, but they also, they're still only dating.

They've been dating for three years.

So not officially married yet.

Who your in-laws are gonna be.

How much they bought in.

I will tell you right now, this isn't your person.

I have an older brother.

His name is Matt.

You guys might know him.

I'm not sure what's happening with Midwest Married.

I'm so sorry.

They're building a house right now.

I think they're a little busy.

But Matt married his wife, Amy, and they ended up buying Amy's grandma's house.