Danette

Yeah.

I hate cooking.

Be very interesting.

Maybe there's something here we can work out.

Yeah.

So, you know, maybe are there some boundaries?

Maybe do they need to talk on the phone constantly and see each other every single day?

Maybe not.

But I think that someone else would come in and they would look at everything that you are finding a negative and they would look at it and find it a positive.

looking at like hey if we have kids grandma and grandpa right down the road they would love that clearly some people do so i look at this and i just think at this point you're two different people and what he wants is way too far from what you want and i don't think there's a compromise to be met in the middle

But that is my maybe too hot of a take, too much unsolicited advice.

So you got to feel it out.

Absolutely.

Absolutely.

But moving on to our last one.

Hi, Jerry and FKS crew.

Longtime fan of FKS and THT.

I've taken so much of your lessons, stories, and advice to improve myself and my relationships over the years.

But this time, I could use some more direct advice from my favorite internet dad, as my relationship with my own father is dead in the water, and I have no other living relatives to ask for guidance.

I, 31 female, have been with my boyfriend, 34 male, for almost 13 years.