Danette

She saw the world.

Do you make...

Huge money.

Not right away.

You start on reserves and it can be a grind and you're kind of at that airline's whim.

But there's a lot of benefits with it and people love it.

And as you climb with a company, it can pay really well eventually.

Yeah, I think it takes time.

Obviously you need to heal, but I don't think that's out of the question with this guy.

I mean, you've shared so much of your life together and you seem like you're really connected, but I just think it's run its course.

Maybe, maybe.

I mean, it's up to you, but ideal outcome does say for everything to go back to how we were before feels naive and unrealistic.

Everything is strained and changing so much.

I feel like I'm already grieving the loss of this relationship.

I know myself enough that I would be fine without a life partner, but do I want to be?

I don't know if I want to choose to be alone, but I also don't know how I can choose to stay without needing to change parts of our relationship.

At least take a break.

At least just take a break and see if something gives.

Does he get out of his own head and maybe depression that he's dealing with, caregiver burnout, is he willing to make a change rather than lose you?

But I would try at least a break.