Danette

I don't want to give up time with my daughter.

I also felt so disappointed for her that he's comfortable with being so checked out of her life.

Any advice is appreciated.

Yeah.

Yeah, that will eat at you.

Absolutely.

And you only know what you know.

I think a lot of people that I've come across lately have been like, oh, I wish that wasn't my child's dad.

You loved this person.

You had a kid together.

You have a beautiful daughter who will be so much happier, healthier, and better off with her parents separated than trying to make an unhealthy relationship work.

And I fully believe that I growing up was so appreciative of the fact that my bio dad was not in my household.

And I got my dad, Jerry, because my mom didn't try to make that work.

So I wouldn't put that pressure on you and sadness or resentment that like, oh, she's not going to grow up in a home with two parents that love each other.

No, she will.

And she has you.

Like, don't sell yourself short.

I think some therapy would be good.

Get some distance.

Living in the same house is so hard and toxic.