Daniel Pink
👤 SpeakerAppearances Over Time
Podcast Appearances
So I think that's the reason why.
The solution is very, very simple.
Say it now.
Period.
Full stop.
That's all that it is.
And if it feels a little awkward, fine.
Push past that awkwardness.
The feeling of awkwardness you're experiencing now is nothing compared to the feeling of regret you might feel five years from now, 10 years from now.
and just say it.
And the thing is, like this is also learned behavior because once you do it, the next one becomes easier.
Once you do that, it becomes easier and easier and easier and easier.
Listen, listen, listen.
This is not natural.
I'm like a straight white man in my early 60s.
It's not natural for me to text a buddy of mine and say, hey, I'm thinking of you.
All right.
That is not that is learned behavior.
That is not natural behavior.
But you know what?