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Danielle Elliott

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Climbing the Walls
Danielle’s story: A breakup, an intense reaction, and ADHD diagnosis (from “ADHD Aha!”)

My rent here would be three thousand a month. You know, I did the math and of course I'm going to Peru for a month. I don't have an apartment yet. I'll just do this first. I remember specifically not telling my therapist I was going because she would have a reaction because I had just gotten back from this like Mexico and Belize.

Climbing the Walls
Danielle’s story: A breakup, an intense reaction, and ADHD diagnosis (from “ADHD Aha!”)

And then I like stayed home long enough to get diagnosed and then immediately went to Peru. And I think I had to go to Aspen for work for a week. So I went straight from Aspen to Peru. And when I did get there, I was on a telehealth appointment with my therapist. And she just was like, it's the first time I saw her seem completely just like exasperated with me.

Climbing the Walls
Danielle’s story: A breakup, an intense reaction, and ADHD diagnosis (from “ADHD Aha!”)

And then I like stayed home long enough to get diagnosed and then immediately went to Peru. And I think I had to go to Aspen for work for a week. So I went straight from Aspen to Peru. And when I did get there, I was on a telehealth appointment with my therapist. And she just was like, it's the first time I saw her seem completely just like exasperated with me.

Climbing the Walls
Danielle’s story: A breakup, an intense reaction, and ADHD diagnosis (from “ADHD Aha!”)

And she was just like, Danielle, what are you running from? I was like, how dare you? And I thought about it. And then I was like, I mean, my immediate reaction was I don't think I'm running from anything. And then I thought about it a little more. And I was like, I feel like I'm running towards something.

Climbing the Walls
Danielle’s story: A breakup, an intense reaction, and ADHD diagnosis (from “ADHD Aha!”)

And she was just like, Danielle, what are you running from? I was like, how dare you? And I thought about it. And then I was like, I mean, my immediate reaction was I don't think I'm running from anything. And then I thought about it a little more. And I was like, I feel like I'm running towards something.

Climbing the Walls
Danielle’s story: A breakup, an intense reaction, and ADHD diagnosis (from “ADHD Aha!”)

And like the thing that I think with traveling that I always feel like I'm running towards is stimulation. I guess if I was going to put it in ADHD terms, it's like stimulation. When you get to a new place, I never look things up before I go. I leave my phone and I just walk outside and then just figure out a day. And I think we don't get that anymore at home.

Climbing the Walls
Danielle’s story: A breakup, an intense reaction, and ADHD diagnosis (from “ADHD Aha!”)

And like the thing that I think with traveling that I always feel like I'm running towards is stimulation. I guess if I was going to put it in ADHD terms, it's like stimulation. When you get to a new place, I never look things up before I go. I leave my phone and I just walk outside and then just figure out a day. And I think we don't get that anymore at home.

Climbing the Walls
Danielle’s story: A breakup, an intense reaction, and ADHD diagnosis (from “ADHD Aha!”)

Everything's so planned or it's just like, I don't know, I guess you could call it the sense of discovery. Like it just doesn't exist for me at home in the same way anymore. So I think that's what I get out of traveling is just like completely new surroundings, no idea what I'm doing and being forced to figure it all out. Yeah. The novelty. The novelty. Yeah. Yeah.

Climbing the Walls
Danielle’s story: A breakup, an intense reaction, and ADHD diagnosis (from “ADHD Aha!”)

Everything's so planned or it's just like, I don't know, I guess you could call it the sense of discovery. Like it just doesn't exist for me at home in the same way anymore. So I think that's what I get out of traveling is just like completely new surroundings, no idea what I'm doing and being forced to figure it all out. Yeah. The novelty. The novelty. Yeah. Yeah.

Climbing the Walls
Danielle’s story: A breakup, an intense reaction, and ADHD diagnosis (from “ADHD Aha!”)

I don't know if I would have discovered it sooner because even like 2013, I was in grad school and my advisor always joked that I had shiny ball syndrome. And I remember one of my professors saying that I was always doing two things at once, even in class, but that she had started to notice that I seemed to focus better if I was doing two things.

Climbing the Walls
Danielle’s story: A breakup, an intense reaction, and ADHD diagnosis (from “ADHD Aha!”)

I don't know if I would have discovered it sooner because even like 2013, I was in grad school and my advisor always joked that I had shiny ball syndrome. And I remember one of my professors saying that I was always doing two things at once, even in class, but that she had started to notice that I seemed to focus better if I was doing two things.

Climbing the Walls
Danielle’s story: A breakup, an intense reaction, and ADHD diagnosis (from “ADHD Aha!”)

So she stopped asking me to stop, even if I was just looking at things on an iPad or whatnot. Yeah. I think people have actually been telling me I have ADHD my whole life without even knowing that's what they were telling me. Oh, interesting.

Climbing the Walls
Danielle’s story: A breakup, an intense reaction, and ADHD diagnosis (from “ADHD Aha!”)

So she stopped asking me to stop, even if I was just looking at things on an iPad or whatnot. Yeah. I think people have actually been telling me I have ADHD my whole life without even knowing that's what they were telling me. Oh, interesting.

Climbing the Walls
Danielle’s story: A breakup, an intense reaction, and ADHD diagnosis (from “ADHD Aha!”)

Yeah, because I switched. It was like, yeah, like traveling. But I've also, I've been in New York since 2008 and I switched apartments every single year. So I had to just... make my life about constant change in almost every possible way.

Climbing the Walls
Danielle’s story: A breakup, an intense reaction, and ADHD diagnosis (from “ADHD Aha!”)

Yeah, because I switched. It was like, yeah, like traveling. But I've also, I've been in New York since 2008 and I switched apartments every single year. So I had to just... make my life about constant change in almost every possible way.

Climbing the Walls
Danielle’s story: A breakup, an intense reaction, and ADHD diagnosis (from “ADHD Aha!”)

For better or worse. Yeah. I can't go on without my fidget. Yeah.

Climbing the Walls
Danielle’s story: A breakup, an intense reaction, and ADHD diagnosis (from “ADHD Aha!”)

For better or worse. Yeah. I can't go on without my fidget. Yeah.

Climbing the Walls
Danielle’s story: A breakup, an intense reaction, and ADHD diagnosis (from “ADHD Aha!”)

Yeah, I really like this one. And I don't know that I thought it was a problem. I guess that's the other thing is like, I don't think I ever thought anything was wrong until it was like, oh, my God, that's how I act in relationships. Like, That's who I am or that's how I react to a breakup. I want to know if there's ways to be better at this. Career-wise, I was happy with how things were going.

Climbing the Walls
Danielle’s story: A breakup, an intense reaction, and ADHD diagnosis (from “ADHD Aha!”)

Yeah, I really like this one. And I don't know that I thought it was a problem. I guess that's the other thing is like, I don't think I ever thought anything was wrong until it was like, oh, my God, that's how I act in relationships. Like, That's who I am or that's how I react to a breakup. I want to know if there's ways to be better at this. Career-wise, I was happy with how things were going.

Climbing the Walls
Danielle’s story: A breakup, an intense reaction, and ADHD diagnosis (from “ADHD Aha!”)

There were definitely a lot of moments where I wished I was capable of working for one company and wanting to stay there, but I would hit. There was one time I had a full-time job for two years and I hit the one-year mark and was like, really? It was like some sort of itch. And then at the second year, I quit because I was like, I just can't do this.