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Darby Saxbe

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1267 total appearances

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Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard
Darby Saxbe (on Dad Brain)

That kind of goes with the whole alloparenting idea.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard
Darby Saxbe (on Dad Brain)

We evolved to sort of know how to take care of each other.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard
Darby Saxbe (on Dad Brain)

And that could be through adoption, through step parenthood or through biological parenthood.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard
Darby Saxbe (on Dad Brain)

The more we can kind of empower men to participate fully in care, the more we can value care as something that isn't just the domain of one gender.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard
Darby Saxbe (on Dad Brain)

That requires some investment.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard
Darby Saxbe (on Dad Brain)

I think it requires really smart policy and it requires kind of cultural change, right, to kind of see men as natural caregivers.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard
Darby Saxbe (on Dad Brain)

I think it's interesting.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard
Darby Saxbe (on Dad Brain)

We're living in this era where it feels like there's a resurgence of neo-traditional gender roles.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard
Darby Saxbe (on Dad Brain)

The trad wife and the sort of breadwinner male.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard
Darby Saxbe (on Dad Brain)

To me, that runs a little counter to our evolutionary history, which is about flexibility and not about getting locked in to this is the job of moms and this is the job of dads.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard
Darby Saxbe (on Dad Brain)

So I really think that if we were a society that really valued the welfare of young kids, we would be a society that champions fathers.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard
Darby Saxbe (on Dad Brain)

Not to the exclusion of mothers, but fathers are really important for mothers' well-being too.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard
Darby Saxbe (on Dad Brain)

And we would be a society that really puts its resources into how do we nurture the next generation of humans.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard
Darby Saxbe (on Dad Brain)

Yeah, definitely.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard
Darby Saxbe (on Dad Brain)

The research is finding that when companies have parental leave, paternity leave,

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard
Darby Saxbe (on Dad Brain)

It's good for retention.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard
Darby Saxbe (on Dad Brain)

It's good for employee well-being.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard
Darby Saxbe (on Dad Brain)

It's actually unfortunate, just in the last few weeks, there have been some headlines that some big companies are actually cutting their parental leave programs, sort of a cost-cutting thing.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard
Darby Saxbe (on Dad Brain)

But it's really good for worker loyalty and for worker productivity.

Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard
Darby Saxbe (on Dad Brain)

And then we have these international models where we have more generous leaves in other countries.