Daris Whitfield
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I don't need โ I don't need someone to tell me, oh, yeah, I trust that you're not lying about some horrific thing that happened to you. It's the definition of insanity.
I don't need โ I don't need someone to tell me, oh, yeah, I trust that you're not lying about some horrific thing that happened to you. It's the definition of insanity.
That's crazy.
That's crazy.
So I think, again, as your older brother. It's hard to trust any of that process when I see something as simple as that, I think is one of the most inappropriate things you can say to someone after they've come out and shared something.
So I think, again, as your older brother. It's hard to trust any of that process when I see something as simple as that, I think is one of the most inappropriate things you can say to someone after they've come out and shared something.
And then it ends with a group hug of someone else.
And then it ends with a group hug of someone else.
Well, but also, but I'm just saying in general, then just saying like, no, no, we do believe it happened. It's like, well, what do you say to that? Then, like you said, without looking like a crazy person, because if you know, you just sit there and you slump and you just wait. Yeah, I just thought that really upset me, obviously, that it was handled that way.
Well, but also, but I'm just saying in general, then just saying like, no, no, we do believe it happened. It's like, well, what do you say to that? Then, like you said, without looking like a crazy person, because if you know, you just sit there and you slump and you just wait. Yeah, I just thought that really upset me, obviously, that it was handled that way.
So with Central Park, we filmed for like an hour, right? And even that scene, I didn't know if I was going to let them include it because I was told that I would have the right whether or not to include it. So at the beginning of the season, the first call that they do is like the catch-up call. And they catch up call and they sit there and say, OK, what's going on in your life?
So with Central Park, we filmed for like an hour, right? And even that scene, I didn't know if I was going to let them include it because I was told that I would have the right whether or not to include it. So at the beginning of the season, the first call that they do is like the catch-up call. And they catch up call and they sit there and say, OK, what's going on in your life?
What's going on in their life? And one thing that they kept saying was like, so this year, the network really wants to see you dating. We have to show you dating. We have to show you dating. And, you know, like last year I pushed it off. I'm like, well, none of that, which is true. And they don't know the guys that I date would ever want to be on the show. Like, that's cute, sweetie, but no thanks.
What's going on in their life? And one thing that they kept saying was like, so this year, the network really wants to see you dating. We have to show you dating. We have to show you dating. And, you know, like last year I pushed it off. I'm like, well, none of that, which is true. And they don't know the guys that I date would ever want to be on the show. Like, that's cute, sweetie, but no thanks.
You know, they're like proper jobs and things. But then also I was like, also, you guys, I'm going to be honest. I don't know if I want to share this, but I don't want to keep putting you off because I feel like I'm lying to you. The real reason is because of this, because I still struggle with this thing that happened to me and I struggle to get close with people and I struggle to be vulnerable.
You know, they're like proper jobs and things. But then also I was like, also, you guys, I'm going to be honest. I don't know if I want to share this, but I don't want to keep putting you off because I feel like I'm lying to you. The real reason is because of this, because I still struggle with this thing that happened to me and I struggle to get close with people and I struggle to be vulnerable.
So I am dating, but like it goes back and forth. And I'm like, but that's real. So I would actually appreciate if you guys wouldn't hammer me every week. Hey, did you do so-and-so? Hey, did you talk to so-and-so? Because actually that's kind of upsetting to me. They're like, oh, my God, oh, my God. OK, would you ever want to share it? And I was like, I don't know. Like, we'll see.
So I am dating, but like it goes back and forth. And I'm like, but that's real. So I would actually appreciate if you guys wouldn't hammer me every week. Hey, did you do so-and-so? Hey, did you talk to so-and-so? Because actually that's kind of upsetting to me. They're like, oh, my God, oh, my God. OK, would you ever want to share it? And I was like, I don't know. Like, we'll see.
And then you were in town and then they were like, oh, we should do a re, you know, go back to Mimi's tree and talk about that. And then again, one of the, you know, everyone was so kind last year when I shared, OK, I'm grieving my mother. Look, and everyone has a mother, a grandmother who's people have grandmothers who raise them or their birth mothers that die. People die. Older people die.
And then you were in town and then they were like, oh, we should do a re, you know, go back to Mimi's tree and talk about that. And then again, one of the, you know, everyone was so kind last year when I shared, OK, I'm grieving my mother. Look, and everyone has a mother, a grandmother who's people have grandmothers who raise them or their birth mothers that die. People die. Older people die.