Dave Chilton

Now, you don't necessarily get over the conflict.

quite quickly, but you get over the missing item quite quickly.

And if you keep that in mind, that often helps to get through all of this.

But to your point, that's not as easy to do as it is for Dave Chilton to talk about.

And it's interesting, you said earlier, when it's done beforehand, you would rather they're mad at you, the parent, the grandparent, whomever it is that's leaving the money, but you don't want them mad at the sibling.

The problem is in real life, even if the sibling had nothing to do,

With where it ended up, they tend to take it out on the sibling to some extent.

And I think you said that well, and that's why it aligns with some of that research that says you don't lose those memories.

And therefore, you do tend to get past the object moving on a little bit more quicker than some people anticipate.

Where I've seen this jump up, of course, is often there's only one wedding ring.

Sometimes there's three and four.

Yeah, but often there's only one wedding ring.

And a number of the people in the family can attach great sentimental value to that and want it for one of their kids, their grandkids, etc.

And there tends to be some conflict no matter where it ends up.

How have you handled the wedding ring dilemma in the past?

Yeah, that's great advice.

And I've seen that more and more.

As I say, we did it in one instance.

It was made into other jewelry.

That was a perfect resolution to the whole thing.