Dave Chilton

Do you go to a lottery system where you have a random draw?

What do you do to take away the kind of pain and the kind of anger that can result from all of this?

Yeah, that's interesting.

So, I mean, one of the big pieces of advice that you've given in TED Talk as well is let's address this prior to death.

Yeah.

Let's address this prior to any dementia or kind of cognitive decline when everybody's on their A game.

Let's get the potential inheritors together.

Let's talk it through.

There's less emotion at that time because this is still a ways off.

People tend to be calmer.

And to your point, you can discover the potential areas of conflict and then figure out the right path to deal with them.

Now, I agree with you that in many instances, getting rid of them

may be one of the better options but it's never too well received from people they are always saying why would we get rid of something that we all have sentimental thoughts towards and that we're arguing over who should control but we don't want again this to be out there do you come back again and go back to what i referenced earlier do you ever have a lottery system where they draw and they put their name on different things they go through the house that way i've seen that more and more often lately

Do you see that time sharing idea that you advanced earlier very often now?

So it's something that has sentimental value.

They don't want to get rid of it.

So someone takes it for X months and someone takes it for X months and it passes around the family that way?

I want to give our listeners some comfort on something that is interesting.

Some of the research has stolen.

That when you do get rid of a sentimental item, that you're very upset that your brothers, your sisters, the family is forced to get rid of, often you get over it quite quickly.