Dave Chilton

How do you walk through that minefield?

And do they actually follow that and ship it back and forth?

No, it's crazy.

I like the VHS approach.

I think that makes a lot of sense.

I mean, I have a VHS.

Very few people can still say they watch VHS.

But no, and it's not worth anything along the same line.

But I mean, that's a great system to organize things.

But at the end of the day, it doesn't avoid some of the conflict.

So let's say we have a very sentimental item.

It's an ashtray collection that my grandmother had.

And you've got multiple grandkids who all associate it with her and want it.

They think it's pretty.

They like the whole shebang and they're arguing over it.

Any tips on how best to resolve those types of conflicts?

Even beforehand, let's say the parent or the person that's about to pass on has said, look, let's chat this through.

And they're trying to stay calm and they're trying to do all the right things around conversations.

But there's still conflict because different people associate different value with this or you have an item that can't be divided in any kind of way at all.

How do you deal with those types of things?