Dave Ramsey

Are you guys aligned on everything else?

What's your household income?

And you're attacking debt, obviously, with intensity.

And so how much debt are you attacking?

Which is going to clear all your debts.

And you're not going to be in Baby Step 2 anymore.

And so then it doesn't matter if you buy prepared meals anymore.

It's really low.

It feels like that – okay, let me tell you what normally happens when I've been coaching people on these situations, that we've found one thing that absolutely doesn't matter to argue about, but there's a whole lot of big things that we should have been arguing about that we're not.

Right.

Like he's still buying –

two thousand dollar guns or something and and bitching about a thirteen dollar burrito um that's what i find a lot of times um or he you know or you're buying something else that he's really frustrated about but he's pointing it over here at the burrito instead yeah am i missing something i mean is there a coach purse in the story that i missed

You guys are in complete 100% agreement.

There's no argument about everything else in your budget, and you're running a $400 food budget.

Well, no, he's trying to be very, very intense.

But here's the problem.

You end up, if you lose the wife, if you lose the spouse...

over a $13 burrito, you didn't win the war.

And you threw the baby out with the bathwater.

Okay.