Dave Ramsey

But you don't co-sign.

And they're going to try to get you to co-sign.

Because you have a blind spot here, kiddo.

This lady, she's gotten a hold of your heart, and she's sweet, and she does need someone to help her, but we need to define help very carefully.

Help involves her behaving, and you're not willing to make that requirement, nor can you make that guarantee based on her 60 years of misbehavior.

Right.

You're going to get screwed if you do this.

Please don't do it.

And let me help you with this, okay?

It's not that he doesn't love her.

It's from the 16 times he tried to help her, and it burned him.

And he's done being burned, so he's putting up a boundary.

That's different than not loving.

And you're calling it not love in a dysfunctional family.

I'm calling her a dysfunctional person who needs love and help, but has burned everything around her to the ground to the point her own brother won't help her.

You can't put that on him.

I'm not gonna let you do it.

I don't even know him and I'm not gonna let, he's not the jerk in this story, okay?

And there's not a jerk in this story.

There's a sad lady with mental illness