Dave Ramsey

And you've got a lot of, like you said, a lot of variables.

There's a lot of things coming at you that are draining you.

the gas out of your tank the fuel out of your tank you have your hands full kiddo i mean what you described in a perfect world if all the finances were in really good shape with the kids situation you've got with you working on spectrum stuff and you're working on small babies and everything else you are absolutely overwhelmed just with that a normal human would be

OK, and and then let's go ahead and have a few bullet rounds come past your house.

That always helps, you know.

And then let's add to that the fact that this whole financial stress thing is a mess and it's a mistake.

And, you know, you shouldn't have done it and you feel bad about doing it every time you think about it.

And so you pile these things upon these things and pile these things and pile these things.

And then the situation just becomes you start your brain starts to tell you that you can't get out, that you're stuck and it's wrong.

You can get out.

So we're going to put the house on the market tomorrow.

Get on the web, jump on Ramsey Solutions, find a Ramsey-trusted real estate agent, and put a sign on the yard tomorrow.

Now.

Okay.

Vicki, there is no scenario that you can stay in this house and have a good life.

So we have to solve for it, not find reasons it can't be done.

You haven't found the solution yet.

I understand that.

But that doesn't mean there's not one out there.

Vicki, you can't afford to live there.