Dave Ramsey

Yeah.

It's killing you.

Why would you sign up for more pain?

You can't live in that neighborhood.

You can't afford it.

You need to move to something that you can afford and get your life back.

Because, listen, if your payments were under control, your husband wasn't working six jobs, you weren't trying to pick up a job, and all you had to deal with was the situation with your children, that's more than anybody ought to have to say grace over without all the other stuff.

You've got to get some of these things off your plate.

This is not a sustainable situation.

You're going to blow up.

And I think the hard thing is trying to make everything work.

You can't make everything work.

So that's it.

So I think there's a level of... I mean, it's kind of almost like grief of like, wow, I really thought this from a location, a school, like X, Y, and Z was going to look like this and realizing it can't.

It can't look like this.

And so in order for us to get margin and peace...

It's probably going to mean, yeah, maybe a move financially that is way better.

Maybe the schools aren't as great.

But most public schools have the ability, I mean, depending on the county, of helping.

And your kids are small.