David Deida

And that connection is love, even though you're playing the opposite poles.

So one feels that love and is still and silent.

and is not in the mood to communicate emotions.

They're not in any mood.

There is no mood.

And the other is flowing with feeling, bursting with emotions, and highly responsive to life.

And those tend to make...

you know, a good pair in terms of polarity.

So you recognize the unity of heart, I am you, at that, but then you recognize the reciprocity in body and mind.

She's radiant, I'm still.

You know, she loves to dance, I love to watch her dance.

moving through some of the patterns that he he has to work through in order to get to that man of zero point yes um again my previous 10 books were focused on this congratulations on 11 by the way you know men shouldn't push their stage or phase like you you should live it fully the the best way

to grow out of it is to grow through it.

I agree.

And so if you really are motivated to just have physical sex, you know, wham, bam, thank you, man, just quick, you know, then if that's where you're at, do it until it becomes obsolete for you.

When a man begins to become ready, there are all kinds of practices he could do.

I mean, I'll say some of them, but again, there's a lot of them.

One thing is for him to learn to take his attention off himself, off his own body, and onto his partner's body, even in sex and not in sex.

So let's talk about sex.

So to feel your partner's body more than you feel your own, to feel