David Deida
π€ SpeakerAppearances Over Time
Podcast Appearances
You're just no longer motivated like you used to be.
You might look at your friends, say, and they seem motivated.
They seem okay.
They seem like they have a reason to get up in the morning and go forward.
Why don't you?
There's a kind of...
Well, you could either call it peace or you could call it lack of stress in your heart or your depth.
And many people then, many men then assume that's an issue, that's a problem because they've been motivated, like you say, for many reasons.
And suddenly, they're just not
It's not sufficient to move them anymore.
It feels false.
It feels like a false life.
It feels like they're not living true to their deepest self.
And temporarily, their deepest self wants to do nothing, which to me is a portal.
Like if men learned how to do nothing impeccably,
So not get on their phone or look at pornography or watch movies or whatever people might do when they don't want to do anything.
If instead men just took a moment and really were present, totally aware, like crystal clear.
not pulling away, not pushing anything, something emerges from that.
So when you're able to just sit, or you could do it walking, or it doesn't matter at all, but if you could just be, that being then begins to unfold through your life, through your body and mind.
And your body and mind are conditioned, like your body and mind are trained a certain way, so when that being unfolds,