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David Ghiyam

๐Ÿ‘ค Speaker
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The School of Greatness
The #1 Cause of Breakups & The Spiritual Secret To Attracting Healthy Love | David Ghiyam

It looks like the world is a very dark place and people are against me and Certain circumstances aren't fair and people are born in different situations that aren't fair. And it does look like that, but the truth is every single soul has a pathway to the greatest miracles that they could ever possibly imagine. Every soul has a pathway towards their soulmate, even if it looks like they don't.

The School of Greatness
The #1 Cause of Breakups & The Spiritual Secret To Attracting Healthy Love | David Ghiyam

It looks like the world is a very dark place and people are against me and Certain circumstances aren't fair and people are born in different situations that aren't fair. And it does look like that, but the truth is every single soul has a pathway to the greatest miracles that they could ever possibly imagine. Every soul has a pathway towards their soulmate, even if it looks like they don't.

The School of Greatness
The #1 Cause of Breakups & The Spiritual Secret To Attracting Healthy Love | David Ghiyam

Every soul has a pathway towards having financial freedom, even if it looks dark and impossible and you don't know where it's going to come from. There is a pathway. The fact that you don't see it, there's a spiritual reason. It's because our soul asked not to see it. Our soul asked not to be born with our soulmate. Our soul asked not to be born knowing our purpose.

The School of Greatness
The #1 Cause of Breakups & The Spiritual Secret To Attracting Healthy Love | David Ghiyam

Every soul has a pathway towards having financial freedom, even if it looks dark and impossible and you don't know where it's going to come from. There is a pathway. The fact that you don't see it, there's a spiritual reason. It's because our soul asked not to see it. Our soul asked not to be born with our soulmate. Our soul asked not to be born knowing our purpose.

The School of Greatness
The #1 Cause of Breakups & The Spiritual Secret To Attracting Healthy Love | David Ghiyam

Our soul asked to be put in a world of darkness so that we could activate our God gene and earn all of this fulfillment. So it shouldn't just be given to us. Anything that is just given to us makes us feel shame and we resent it. Because when you give someone something they have not earned, they feel the opposite. They feel they received less.

The School of Greatness
The #1 Cause of Breakups & The Spiritual Secret To Attracting Healthy Love | David Ghiyam

Our soul asked to be put in a world of darkness so that we could activate our God gene and earn all of this fulfillment. So it shouldn't just be given to us. Anything that is just given to us makes us feel shame and we resent it. Because when you give someone something they have not earned, they feel the opposite. They feel they received less.

The School of Greatness
The #1 Cause of Breakups & The Spiritual Secret To Attracting Healthy Love | David Ghiyam

So a lot of times people who don't appreciate us, it's not because we didn't give them enough, it's because we gave them too much. And so they keep thinking, I'm not getting. But it's not that they're not getting. It's that we're giving them so much, we're flooding their vessel. And too much light becomes darkness. Really? Yeah.

The School of Greatness
The #1 Cause of Breakups & The Spiritual Secret To Attracting Healthy Love | David Ghiyam

So a lot of times people who don't appreciate us, it's not because we didn't give them enough, it's because we gave them too much. And so they keep thinking, I'm not getting. But it's not that they're not getting. It's that we're giving them so much, we're flooding their vessel. And too much light becomes darkness. Really? Yeah.

The School of Greatness
The #1 Cause of Breakups & The Spiritual Secret To Attracting Healthy Love | David Ghiyam

When you're giving, not understanding what the vessel can hold, appreciate, and use. Which vessel? Yours or the other person? Other person's vessel. This is the number one thing in relationships that's causing breakups to happen or resentment to happen. Let's say, and I have an example of this. I remember coaching this couple. This guy basically said, I found this amazing girl. We've been dating.

The School of Greatness
The #1 Cause of Breakups & The Spiritual Secret To Attracting Healthy Love | David Ghiyam

When you're giving, not understanding what the vessel can hold, appreciate, and use. Which vessel? Yours or the other person? Other person's vessel. This is the number one thing in relationships that's causing breakups to happen or resentment to happen. Let's say, and I have an example of this. I remember coaching this couple. This guy basically said, I found this amazing girl. We've been dating.

The School of Greatness
The #1 Cause of Breakups & The Spiritual Secret To Attracting Healthy Love | David Ghiyam

And it's finally. Like, I am so, I found my dream girl. I'm so in love. And this is amazing. It's been like three weeks. And I said, amazing, what are you guys doing? He's like, I'm taking her here. I'm doing this. I'm introducing her to my family, all that. I'm giving her the world. Giving her the world. And I said, wow, that's amazing. He's like, yeah. I said, I would love to meet her.

The School of Greatness
The #1 Cause of Breakups & The Spiritual Secret To Attracting Healthy Love | David Ghiyam

And it's finally. Like, I am so, I found my dream girl. I'm so in love. And this is amazing. It's been like three weeks. And I said, amazing, what are you guys doing? He's like, I'm taking her here. I'm doing this. I'm introducing her to my family, all that. I'm giving her the world. Giving her the world. And I said, wow, that's amazing. He's like, yeah. I said, I would love to meet her.

The School of Greatness
The #1 Cause of Breakups & The Spiritual Secret To Attracting Healthy Love | David Ghiyam

I met her, and she had this beautiful Rolex watch, but it was like a male. It wasn't a female watch. I said, that's a beautiful watch. It was kind of big on her wrist. It was kind of big on her wrist. She's like, hey, Brandon got it for you. In three weeks of knowing her. Yeah, so that for me, I looked at it and I said, oh, that's so generous of him.

The School of Greatness
The #1 Cause of Breakups & The Spiritual Secret To Attracting Healthy Love | David Ghiyam

I met her, and she had this beautiful Rolex watch, but it was like a male. It wasn't a female watch. I said, that's a beautiful watch. It was kind of big on her wrist. It was kind of big on her wrist. She's like, hey, Brandon got it for you. In three weeks of knowing her. Yeah, so that for me, I looked at it and I said, oh, that's so generous of him.

The School of Greatness
The #1 Cause of Breakups & The Spiritual Secret To Attracting Healthy Love | David Ghiyam

Later on, I found that he also gave her a credit card and said, hey, look, this is whatever you need. Because he wanted to make her feel comfortable. Of course. He wanted to show her how much he loved her. He wanted her to... He understood her love language was gifts and acts of service, like I want to give that to her. Yeah, and he wanted her to feel safe and wow her or woo her as well. Correct.

The School of Greatness
The #1 Cause of Breakups & The Spiritual Secret To Attracting Healthy Love | David Ghiyam

Later on, I found that he also gave her a credit card and said, hey, look, this is whatever you need. Because he wanted to make her feel comfortable. Of course. He wanted to show her how much he loved her. He wanted her to... He understood her love language was gifts and acts of service, like I want to give that to her. Yeah, and he wanted her to feel safe and wow her or woo her as well. Correct.

The School of Greatness
The #1 Cause of Breakups & The Spiritual Secret To Attracting Healthy Love | David Ghiyam

So I know, kabbalistically, what happens to a soul when you give them too much energy, you give them too much of something that they have not earned or don't have the capacity to receive or are using it for their own lack and need. So this girl figured out how to get him to give to her gifts, love, expression to fill her needs.

The School of Greatness
The #1 Cause of Breakups & The Spiritual Secret To Attracting Healthy Love | David Ghiyam

So I know, kabbalistically, what happens to a soul when you give them too much energy, you give them too much of something that they have not earned or don't have the capacity to receive or are using it for their own lack and need. So this girl figured out how to get him to give to her gifts, love, expression to fill her needs.

The School of Greatness
The #1 Cause of Breakups & The Spiritual Secret To Attracting Healthy Love | David Ghiyam

Then I went to Brandon and I said, Brandon, you need to know something. I've seen this before. I know you're excited about this relationship. I know you don't, want to lose it. But because you're so afraid of losing it, you're over giving and you're literally pouring 16 ounces of water in an eight ounce glass.

The School of Greatness
The #1 Cause of Breakups & The Spiritual Secret To Attracting Healthy Love | David Ghiyam

Then I went to Brandon and I said, Brandon, you need to know something. I've seen this before. I know you're excited about this relationship. I know you don't, want to lose it. But because you're so afraid of losing it, you're over giving and you're literally pouring 16 ounces of water in an eight ounce glass.