David Ghiyam

You're 100% correct because he thinks he's giving, but he is destroying. So he's actually taking from her by giving or what he thinks is giving.

You're 100% correct because he thinks he's giving, but he is destroying. So he's actually taking from her by giving or what he thinks is giving.

This is great.

This is great.

I've met with thousands of women, one-on-one. Maybe 20% of them have been in this situation. The way this usually ends up, if there isn't a spiritual course correct, is she leaves him. Why? She doesn't respect him. And this is what she says to her friends. And the friends say, you're with the perfect guy. I know. Something's missing. The spiritual connection is missing.

I've met with thousands of women, one-on-one. Maybe 20% of them have been in this situation. The way this usually ends up, if there isn't a spiritual course correct, is she leaves him. Why? She doesn't respect him. And this is what she says to her friends. And the friends say, you're with the perfect guy. I know. Something's missing. The spiritual connection is missing.

The emotional connection is missing. The chemistry is missing. Something is missing. Because when you flood the vessel and you don't actually think from the consciousness of what's really good for the soul of this person. Because sometimes giving is setting a boundary.

The emotional connection is missing. The chemistry is missing. Something is missing. Because when you flood the vessel and you don't actually think from the consciousness of what's really good for the soul of this person. Because sometimes giving is setting a boundary.

Sometimes giving is sharing how you feel, not from a reactive place, but explaining to her, hey, listen, these are needs that I have that aren't being met and I want to have a conversation about it. That's also giving. But if you're always just pacifying somebody, if you're not really thinking about how to grow their soul or to help them or inspire them, you're hurting them.

Sometimes giving is sharing how you feel, not from a reactive place, but explaining to her, hey, listen, these are needs that I have that aren't being met and I want to have a conversation about it. That's also giving. But if you're always just pacifying somebody, if you're not really thinking about how to grow their soul or to help them or inspire them, you're hurting them.

And eventually she will look for something else because it's not making her feel good on a soul level. This concept in Kabbalah is called the bread of shame. The bread of shame is a feeling you get when you receive something you have not either physically or spiritually earned. The number one way you know you have a bread of shame is when you feel frustrated, impatient, and judgmental.

And eventually she will look for something else because it's not making her feel good on a soul level. This concept in Kabbalah is called the bread of shame. The bread of shame is a feeling you get when you receive something you have not either physically or spiritually earned. The number one way you know you have a bread of shame is when you feel frustrated, impatient, and judgmental.

When you feel very judgmental, you think it's because you're not getting what you want. It's actually because you're getting so much in your life, but you're not working for it. You're not breaking your fears and spiritually earning it. You're not pushing yourself to expand your vessel. So it's another case of there's so much light, you perceive it as darkness.

When you feel very judgmental, you think it's because you're not getting what you want. It's actually because you're getting so much in your life, but you're not working for it. You're not breaking your fears and spiritually earning it. You're not pushing yourself to expand your vessel. So it's another case of there's so much light, you perceive it as darkness.

Think of the people who are not judgmental or appreciative. They are the people who are working the hardest. They are the people who are breaking through stuff. They are the people who are like, what's the next thing I can, way I can give or I can transform? These people aren't sitting around judging and speaking evil speech. Judgment and evil speech is always a result of

Think of the people who are not judgmental or appreciative. They are the people who are working the hardest. They are the people who are breaking through stuff. They are the people who are like, what's the next thing I can, way I can give or I can transform? These people aren't sitting around judging and speaking evil speech. Judgment and evil speech is always a result of

of not living up to your soul's potential and being stagnant spiritually. So you feel emptiness and then you want temporary energy. And the highest form of temporary energy is evil speech and complaining because it's so easy. It's right there. It's like it's addictive. It's a drug. So the darkness people feel is not because they're not getting what they want.

of not living up to your soul's potential and being stagnant spiritually. So you feel emptiness and then you want temporary energy. And the highest form of temporary energy is evil speech and complaining because it's so easy. It's right there. It's like it's addictive. It's a drug. So the darkness people feel is not because they're not getting what they want.

It's because there's too much energy, too much light, and they haven't built their vessel to hold that energy. Kabbalah is all about how do I build my vessel? We are too consumed with trying to find out how do I get more light? How do I get more energy? How do I get more relationships? How do I get more dates? How do I get more people to love me? How do I get better looking?

It's because there's too much energy, too much light, and they haven't built their vessel to hold that energy. Kabbalah is all about how do I build my vessel? We are too consumed with trying to find out how do I get more light? How do I get more energy? How do I get more relationships? How do I get more dates? How do I get more people to love me? How do I get better looking?