David Senra

And the crazy thing about the book, the book is 600 pages long.

Half the time, you're like, this guy, the first half of the book is about his love for his work and his work ethic.

And so you think you see where it's going.

And then this curveball happens in his life where he's like, life is more important than work.

What Bruce was figuring out is that every human wants relationships, whether it's a romantic relationship or a true friend or something, somebody understands you, that you feel like...

You can, like, do life together.

And I now have... Like, my friend group is crazy because of, like, how high quality they are in all the domains, like, all areas of their life.

And that was, like, oh, my God.

It's not that I was, like, didn't, like...

I didn't want to let people in or I didn't like other humans.

I didn't have access to this before.

Almost every single one of my new friends have come from the podcast.

In some cases, they've become best friends, people that I've spent years getting to know and spend hours and hours talking to.

That's where it's like, this is actually really important to me.

Relationships are really important to me in a way that I didn't understand.

And maybe I was like lying to myself about this.

And so that was like a huge learning for me.

And then the reason I bring this up for the Bruce Fiesing thing is because he's messing up at something he deeply desires, yet he's smart enough to realize, hey, what are the tools that I need to fix this?

Because if I don't fix this, I'm going to have another 30 years, or in his case, 40 years of my life where I'm going to be miserable.

So it's like, change his behavior.